In a few days i'm going to be getting fucked. I was just wondering what the best way were to prepare for it. I've used a vibrator before (average thickness) and can get it about 5 inches in. What is the best technique to use to get you ready for real anal sex with a guy? Also, a seperate question (just out of interest): is anal sex easier for women than for men?
First of all will it be with a partner or just a one night stand - if so then protechion is advisable. also use lots of lube and take it easy
It'll be a one night stand and yes, i'll use protection and lots of lube. Can't wait. I'll probably use a dildo again tonight and just keep it in there for a while to stretch things a bit.
have him eat ur ass out before hand so ur anus will be nice and stimulated then when he is about to enter u he should masage ur taint with his finger and or penis fingering and probing will also loosen it up as for how far in it will go if he is bigger than 5 inches it more than likely will hurt a lil but it will pass and then the sweet pleasure will take over
^ That sounds like a beautiful thing... Can't wait for my first experience. My only problem is finding someone that won't flake.
Not as easy as it sounds... I'm the virgin in all this and I have seasoned veterans flaking on me when it comes down to it. I've done tons of ads and a lot of guys are into experiencing a black man, but it only gets as far as endless emailing and picture exchanges. After that they just fade away, even though I'm the one left asking them what happened, and if they still want to get together. I'm not an ugly guy at all, and I'm pretty muscular, so I don't know what the deal is..
Apologies for being out of order - i think a lot of people over the net are just after free quick sex and thats it proabley the thing to do is to find a guy who is not just up for one night stand or quick sex etc (in person preferably) and see how it goes.
That's just it... These ARE people from the internet. Craigslist being the main place where I post these ads, all of the guys I meet want to hook up later that same day, but when I start asking personal questions about their health, personal interests, or email them more than 15 times in the day, I don't hear from them anymore. One time I even went as far as meeting a guy at a public place, but we couldn't make it happen so we left. Then we tried again and he flaked... And that seems to be the problem.
ell, don't e-mail them more than 15 times in a day. It makes you look like you will be clingy and since they just want nsa sex, that's a bad thing.
I see what you're saying, but it's not what you think. When I say 15 times in the day, it's the same consistent conversation, much like you and I talking right now. He tells me a little bit about himself and what he's interested in doing, and vise versa. Then it goes on to exchanging pictures, time and place and where to meet, and eventually a confirmation. By this time we have exchanged around 15 emails. See what I mean? ...So just before I leave work, I email them to let them know that we're still good and I will meet them at "xyz" place, but I don't get a response in return... This has happened every single time I meet people from Craigslist.
I am totally with you i mean i am more for a relationship with a guy (prefablie) or girl, but it just seams that a lot of people are just out for a one night stand / quick sex and thats it. - I am just going to see how it goes at collage and take it from there. I thinck the thing to do in your situation would be to iver find a guy over the net or in person who has the same idea as you e.g. man 2 man action wile still in anougher relationship and get to know them for a wile and see when, if and where you can do it.
most people are worried of gettin bashed from meetin some one off the net so maby thats why they chicken out
Met that guy btw. It went really well. We made out, i sucked him till he came and then he fucked me in the backseat till he came for a 2nd time (he reached orgasm really quickly, which was probably a bonus for my first time). He had quite a small cock, which was good, and it felt a lot easier than taking a dildo cos you don't take as much friction (the foreskin stays in the same place & it's the head that goes in and out ) Really enjoyed it. Very erotic.
