Is My Boyfriend Gay, Please Help!

Hey everyone. I have been very confused about a certain subject. I think my boyfriend is gay, but he says he is just Bisexual. He likes to dress up in girls clothing, and he loves when i fuck his ass with a dildo. I see dirty texts on his phone to other males, and they send pictures back and forth. On his computer he has all this gay porn, and talks to other males in our area and does not tell me. Someone please help me, i dont know what to do.

 

kinda easy, ditch him

 

its just hard cause we live together. Everything used to be real good till i found this out. we wanted to get married, all that shit.

 

You give little information about yourself. This forum attracts a lot of trolls and I suggest if you want valid responses you need to give more information than you have. I notice you also posted in the "Bi" forum looking to meet with some one. If you use this forum appropriately people will offer their help, if you're trolling, you're banned.
Yarapario Super Moderator

 

Well without attacking you like the previous post...

i believe it seems that your b/f is gay... But you never know, he could infact be bi... It sounds like he is pulling more towards men then women .. but never know... best of luck finding out!

 

Probley the best thing to do is to just say to him that you found all this stuff and ask him weather he is gay or prefers other guys then girls. If so it is probley better to brake up or take a brake and then see how it goes. But if eather of you arn't compleatly comfortable together then marriage is not the thing.

 

Yea i guess ill just talk to him next time i have a chance. I cant believe all this. I am bisexual, so i think maybe i sparked his gayness again. He said he done stuff with boys before when he was little too. I dont have a problem if he is gay, i just wanna know so i can move on and be happy, and same with him. thanks everyone for your help, please feel free to continue giving me advice. i can use every bit of it

 

there is no such thing as a bisexual man. everyone likes women, so he sounds gay to me. most the gay men i asked, which is very few, over the years say that they enjoy sex with women.

 

Better than having children and then he leaves you for a man - find out now while you have the chance!

 

- Ok that is just crap, - just because the gay people you know like the sex they have had with a women doesn't mean that every gay guy does.
Also just because some people are attracted to both sexes and have relationships with both sexes it is there prefrerance, so saying that there is no such thing as being BI and all guys like sex with women is wrong.

 

He could just be bisexual, the stuff he does doesn't mean he's plainly gay.(Not to mention, no one is perfectly one or the other, just varying degrees of "bi".) As for him talking to other men, it seems like its a problem, ie cheating, if so as others said, you can dump him.