How to improve man's physical attraction to women?

Discussion in 'Love and Sex' started by wysiwyg81, Aug 19, 2008.

  1. wysiwyg81

    wysiwyg81 Member

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    If you are a straight woman, what would you advise to your mate/friend to make him physically more attractive?

    I am aware of other than physical factors of attractiveness, but they are not my concern in this thread.
     
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    I don't understand how this could possibly higher my physical attractivness towards women.

    An example answer I'd like to hear is something like this:
    "Exercise to lose weight or to get an athletic body."
    "Be fashionable and wear nice clothes."
    "If balding, try Rogaine."
    "Get braces, teeth whiten, or dental work."
     
  4. Diablos

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    From this I gather that you are fat, poorly dressed, balding with little or no teeth.

    I think the best words ladies on here can say to you is goodluck.

    :cheers2:
     
  5. sarahrei

    sarahrei ~Lover~

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    I'd say make sure that your hands are always kept really clean and neat. It's one of the first things I notice.
     
  6. xic3manx

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    just be yourself, you don't wanna look/act like something your not. if their not attracted for what you naturally look like what's the point?

    obviously there are certain things like look clean, presentable, make eye contact and smile. having a friendly face in public will make you more approachable too.
     
  7. wysiwyg81

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    Actually, you are wrong in all four points :). Still, you are right that I am ugly. That is why I'm asking.

    Thank you! This is actually the first answer to my question. I payed little or no attention to my hands.

    Again, please just answer my question. Don't assume what I will do with the answers.

    Thanks.
     
  8. Yaz

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    always ALWAYS take good care of your hair. greasy or knotty hair is DISGUSTING
    wash your face every day
    for god's sake BE CLEAN! BE SANITARY! we have enough dirty men in this world!
     
  9. Diablos

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    Need some more self esteem by the sounds of things then, if I may ask, what about yourself aren't you happy with?
     
  10. pixie81

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    get a decent haircut. Find out what hairstyle suits you.
    be confident, this definitely makes a man look more physically attractive because a confident man smiles more and has good posture.
    Look after your body - exercise, do a sport(men playing sport is very sex, even if the aren't any good - gives them a chance to show off). but do have a good shower afterwards.

    brush your teeth.
    the right clothing for you. get a friend who you think dresses well, and get them to take you shopping.

    have to admit i don't understand why you are asking? can you ellaborate? What makes you 'ugly'?
     
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    Find good physical qualities about yourself to be confident in, and focus on those things, eventually you'll start to view yourself as less and less ugly until one day you consider yourself -at the very least decent -at best good looking...people see you as you see yourself.
     
  12. wysiwyg81

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    Yes, you are right again. Self esteem, or self-confidence is what I need. However, I already tried everything to gain it without any success. That's why I'm trying to gain it the old-school way.

    You are all right that self-confidence and physical attractivness come together. I'm unsure which one of them is the cause and which is the consequence.

    So much about my motive, it may be dumb for you, but just accept it. I don't want to talk about self-confidence (anymore)!!! This thread is about physical attractivness. Yaz, pixie81, thanks for your answers.
     
  13. katyismename

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    i would say..

    shower often! make sure you smell nice. work on your body, just be healthy and exercise often. take care of your skin, get a new haircut that suits you. smile lots, you'll come across as much more confident and relaxed. make sure you dont have dirty nails and greasy hair (yuckk!).
     
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    I love a man that smells good! Arramis turns me on so much.............if i smell it.........im gonna find the man that wears it! Check out fragrances and see what smells good on you.
     
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    it so hard to to tell how much to put on tho! i think i put too much on... and if its too potent itll just drive a woman away. finding the balance is hard
     
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    Be genuinely interested in the woman's insights, opinion, intellect, and what she has to say. You might learn something. Plus, she will really appreciate the positive attention to her and grow more interested in you.

    Plus, be clean. Oh, and a job helps to show that you are not a slacker. It also shows that you are not committment phobic if you live in your own place. And it's not in a frat house. And it's reasonably clean, too. Like at least use sheets on the bed.

    Find out what she likes and learn about it...try it out.

    Give her wildflowers, and take her dancing next to the beach as the sun sets over the horizon.

    And once you win her love, don't fart in bed. <jk>
     
  17. wysiwyg81

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    No, no, no... Focus! The question is 'How to improve man's physical attraction to women?'

    Good anwers:
    Be clean, sanitary, presentable, make eye contact, smile, get haircut, exercise, go shopping with well-dressed friend, smell good and don't fart.

    Bad answers:
    Be respectful to women and listen to them, have confidence, just be yourself, be genuinely interested in the woman's insights, opinion, intellect, and what she has to say, get a job, have your own place.

    The bad answers are 'bad' because they don't answer the question. Not that I don't like them. I especially like the last two for no particular reason. But they are still off-topic.
     
  18. washable

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    physically more attractive... hmmm...
    be bold and forward.. come to me, don't make me have to come to you, look me in the eyes...small touches with no words... most of all watch me watch you:)
     
  19. ShanaBanana

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    Yeah, I got sidetracked.
     
  20. sophieclair

    sophieclair Senior Member

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    How are you supposed to feel nice about yourself if your telling yourself that you are ugly. Thats not really fair to yourself.


    Tiffany
     

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