lost my virginity last night, but need advice

i havent had a steady girlfriend untill now, and last night we had sex, but i feel like i wasnt so good. so a question to help me out, girls what gets you off?

 

Never good the first time no matter what your friends tell you.Practice makes it better..

 

lol...yeah, you probably weren't so good. Everyone needs practice!

The absolute most important thing for me is honesty. Say you have two virgins; one doesn't talk about how he's a virgin and tries to act like he's experienced, while the other says "Wow, I'm really nervous" and "Is this working for you?" and things like that. Both of them are probably pretty bad in bed, but I'd WAY prefer guy #2.

Also...go down on her.

 

I hope you used a condom...

 

i think learning how to eat out was the best thing ive ever done

 

dude, ask your girl, not us. we are not her, therefore we don't know what gets her motor running. communicate for god's sake... if you're doin' it, you oughta be able to talk about it. if you can't talk about sex with someone, don't DO it with them! seems like common sense... but who am i to make sense?

seriously, she will totally appreciate you talking to her, finding out what gets her hot for you. i would totally rather be with someone who has little experience but wants to learn WITH me than someone who "knows everything already" and has tons of experience.... doesn't matter how much you know or how many people you've fucked... if you've never fucked me, it's a kind of virginity all over again.

 

You made perfect sense tree hugger, it's weird how couples are reluctant to ask about how to please their partner. They rather just dive into it blind than try and work out what works for them.

Just ask her what you can do, and like tree hugger said, if you're too afraid to ask her, you shouldn't be having sex with her. But congrats on becoming a man.

 

Man, all good things come with time an' practice. Not sure where I heard that but while a lot of seemingly less important shit has vacated my mind this phraze is still there. You gotta learn just like tree hugger said. Get with your woman an' figure out what she loves, an' likes, relationships are soooo much more than just sex. But then again I'm not really the best love guru. I'm always livin' on the run.

 

if you don't the condom faerie will get you...

 

Mwuhahaha! Condom faeries! So not cool. So thats whats been happinin' to all my damned condoms.

 

lol...i forgot anything that I was going to type up, but I feel like showing my presence anyways.

what's up guys? hahaha

 

Don't beat yourself up, just because it wasn't the greatest sex of all time.

You gotta crawl before you can walk, and walk before you caqn run.

Take your time there's no rush, gentle kissing, very gentle caressing, and more caressing, over time gets a women or girl wet, never enter a female before she's wet down there.

Penetration is what you do when a women can't take any more foreplay, by that time shes should really be steaming.

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He's got a good point man

 

The condom faerie gives condoms.

 

yeah yeah w/e man. lol

 

Don't ask us, ask HER, dummy.

 

You all need to lighten up. Let the young man be. He was just curious and was seeking some advice.

No need to rag on the boy, just please, keep the peace.

 

DreamerChild is right, and that's the kind of sensitivity you'd expect on the Hip Forums. It's a big day and don't worry, things get better and more splendid with practice. We're all amateurs when it comes to sex, includsing the professionals.

 

Nakedtreehugger gave the best advice, kid. FOLLOW IT!!!!!!!
Crueluserboy iggy: has issues. IGNORE HIM!!!!!

 

sex isnt all that happened , hopefully , as long as there was some love there , you realy dont need to worry so much.
Love makes sex good...just talk to her....hold her...be close..and it will work itself out.