I've been dating this girl for a few months, and I'm totally in love with her; she has been my best friend for a long time and I feel closer to her than I have to anyone else I've ever met. BUT Today we almost broke up because I don't satisfy her needs sexually. For one thing, I haven't done it before. I mean, I've done everything except have vaginal sex. She can't take pills or anything, so we gotta wear a condom every time, and it's hard for me to guide it in. It keeps slipping around and the whole thing turns into a joke. Not that there's anything wrong with humor during sex. But that's not the point. I need advice on what to do about that... and also, what are some fool proof ways for getting her off in the vag? That g-spot "come hither" finger motion thing is bullshit. She prefers having a finger go in and out. And don't tell me to experiment, that will take too long. GOD, HELP ME, PLEASE.
1)There is no magic thing u can learn in the next 60 seconds to save your "relationship". 2)The gspot thing works but only if you know what you're doing in there, it's like picking a lock, you can't see with your eyes, see with your fingers. 3)With girls (most anyways) sex is a small part of a relationship compared to the emotional things. If she is actually going to dump you over sex then that tells me one of two things: a)the sex is PHENOMINALLY bad (no offense intended) b)there is a list of other reasons she isn't feeling satisfied in the relationship and wants out. Remember to most girls being satisfied isn't just cumming, it's a myriad of things combined into one emotion.
Ever thought of just pulling out? If you're willing to do other things with her and you've known her for a while, then you know she doesn't have and diseases. And if you time it right, and learn how to pull out, then you reduce the chances of pregnancy to about the same as if you used a condom.
