I dont know what to do anymore..... Ok i found this reli great guy, -great personality -funny -good looking -and over all just made me happy But idk what happend. I went to Arkansas and we talked like every night on the phone....he even came to see me once. And after awhile we didn't talk to much, but his best friend was what seemed to be a reli good friend of mine. He calls me and tells me "you know im sorry i dont want to have to be the one who has to tell u this but he's not the guy u think he is. Idk how far it went but he was making out with his old boss and they were gone for a reli long time." So i started crying and i felt horrible because i have NEVER been cheated on and i reli liked this guy. It's not often i find someone that can make me feel like that. So i put us on a break. We still talked but i never told him the real reason why i put us on a break. So we basically just broke up and i wanted him back because i relized his friend had lied to me about a TON of shit, everything about him was a lie, he lied because he liked me, but that ugly lieing son of a bitch can go to hell. And now I just feel lost. I dont know the truth.... me an him dont talk anymore and i just want someone to be there, an idk.... I'm tired of being single.... an i miss the feeling of being happy like that. Before we started dating we had a conversation about how you see people. Most with your eyes but some with your heart. Sometimes you get them more than they get themselves. And you see them for who they are, on the inside, and i'll never forget when he said "I see you" But now i feel blind you know? and lost. I want that feeling back. I'm searching for something and i dont exactly know what anymore. Help?
Just keep searching, you'll find someone better, eventually. Trust me, I know that feeling you're talking about.
Yeah, i dont know, it's hard to describe the feeling but its good that some one understands. I dont know if i should just keep looking or if i should stop looking and have fun?
Well if you stop it's guna depress you more eventually because you're always guna want someone, you know what I mean. If you keep searching it'll pay off one day, maybe not right away but just keep trying. People come and go. He's not the only person on this planet who can make you feel like that.
wow thats so sad. if i could hug u right now i would. This guys sounds good, but theres so many great guys out there and you have all the time in the world. I know u'll find one who's perfect for you.
theres lots of cool guys looking for girls, so im sure it cant be too hard for you to find someone else that is cool. You live and you learn, its better to have loved once than never loved at all i guess? the important thing is to just learn from this, and next time you find that your in a similar relationship/situation, that you communicate directly with your partner instead of listening to someone who you think is your friend, and their bullshit....people will lie, unfortunate but true. Just move on with a positive attitude, and over time you will get over him. If he comes back to you, then maybe you can give it another shot. But trust me when i say theres lots of cool guys looking for girlfriends (look at how many douche bags end up with girlfriends while all the nice dudes are sitting in the corner lol)......This sort of thing happens to a lot of people, so your not alone. Happy Trails young one....lol
Thanks you guys.... I'm not going to give up.. but i just dont know what i'm looking for... any suggestions there? I just...i dont know its really hard to explain. Does anyone know what i mean?
I post this over and over. Each person is put in your life for a reason and some for only a season. This experience taught u a few lessons that u will never forget and will take with you. Don't look for a significant other, let it just happen. Live life and have fun, when its meant to happen it will. Its okay to not know what u want, thats why u date. To figure it out. u don't have to make everyone u date someone serious. Saying im tired of being single yadda yadda will make u settle and thats not what u want. Be open. Sidebar: I was thinking, if this is his friend (who obviously like u) and he is a liar, doesn't that make u think about dude? u know company u keep....
Company i keep? No i dont talk to him anymore The guy could go jump off a bridge and i wouldn't give a fuck
