Ok, i have been dating this girl for a while, i don't know maybe 4 years. She is 22 yrs old and was a virgin when we started dating. Well kinda a virgin, she has done oral and some anal play before me (fingers inserted). Currently we are having sex on a regular occasion, but at times she becomes a freak! Being a younger couple we go out and drink more than we should on a regular basis. She has this fantasy of being tied up and anal fucked till completion, no lube though! We currently have anal about once per week, usually after a night of hard drinking (normally lots of lube though) LOL But she wants me to tie her up doggy style and do her anally with no lube till i am done. I am not hung by any means but am probably 7 inches and can last till the cows come home. Multiple times per week she will get mad that i have not done it to her her yet. Any suggestions on how i should approach this without destroying her bum hole?
i know about the lube. LOL but when she want's something she want's it her way! An example... About a year ago she wanted me to spank her with a paddle, nothing sexual just an old fashion spanking. Finally i gave in and ordered a paddle off the internet and spanked her. she wanted her age in spanks, with no soft one's, she wanted it as hard as i could give it and if i layed up they didn't count. She cried bloody murder while it was going on, but then was really affectionate afterwards. She's an admited sexual freak!
It's possible without lube, just go slow and be very careful. I've done it on the beach before, just because the moment grabbed us, and it was pretty hot! Go for it but be careful.
Curiously, I don't know if it's something to do with the female skeletal anatomy, having a different shaped hip, but in my experience I've always found it far easier to penetrate a woman anally than a man. With men lubrication has always been essential, and even then penetration has been difficult to impossible, but with women, not only is it much easier, but on a couple of occasions I have even entered the anus accidentally while going for a 'power entry' to the vagina - something that has never been possible when with a man. With this in mind, I sometimes wonder if lubrication when having anal sex with a woman is always quite so necessary (obviously depending on the anatomy of the individual woman).
I would get her really wet by going down on her while she's on her back. The vag juices will flow down to her asshole and provide probably just the right amount of lube without her knowing it. I've done it a few times that way before and for some reason they seem to really like it even though I'm afraid of hurting them!
