alright, first off, im a 28 year old female, and am having some anal troubles. I used to be able to insert some fairly large objects into my anus, like bananas and such. Anyways i havent had anal for a WHILE and i tried to finger myself tonight, and when it got to 3 fingers, i got excruciating pain in my asshole. This used to be no problem for me.. but it hurt a LOT, and still does. No blood or anything, so im just wondering if the anus starts to tighten up after a while... i just want to have anal sex again
Well from what me and my girl have learned it takes a while to get up to larger objects and the "training process" can hurt for some people, and not for others. Here are the tips i have observed from communication with her about how to make it less uncomfortable. 1. This is the most important "relax" control your heart beat and your thoughts etc. 2. If it hurts a little bit stop relax and let yourself "adjust" to whats going in. 3. Pushing out like you are going number two helps a lot, and if you like gape like i do then it also tends to open up more and more with larger objects, allowing you to peer into the darkness (bring flashlight if you are afraid of the dark lol) 4. Certain toys can irritate you, she likes the 5 bubble (crystal jellies) toy, i am not sure what it is made out of, but another toy i got her tends to irritate her inside but it seems to be made out of the same stuff, i am not sure if it is. 5. Certain lubes can irritate you, like with her K-Y makes it burn like a mofo, but Sliquid Silk doesn't, and that stuff is a water based silicon hybrid lube and it lasts a lot better pretty cheap and its our personal favorite. 6. Last but not least, if your in pain and want to stop at the time but keep going a little further to make more progress for next time, then you are a neanderthal who rapes themselves to get attention, and not a whimpy city faggot. (inside joke that me and her laugh about)
Whatever floats your boat i guess diego, but if you are a dude and want a dude to do something with you then that means your either gay or bi-sexual. If your into guys and girls your bi. There really is no normal, never has been, never will be!
sounds like you are just curious dude, dont wory about it, it dosent make you weird, we all wana try new things and being bi is perfectly normal (i should know ) hope it all goes well man
My ex girlfriend used to need me to go into her slower if we hadn't done anal for a month or so. If we did it a couple times a week it would go in in about 10 seconds. You just need to work up to it again. I'll bet ya it's easier next time...
Well like you said, you haven't done it for a while, it isn't loose like it used to be. It does definitely tighten up after time.
