Hey guys, I'm new and I'm posting after skimming through the first few pages so I hope I'm not reposting an old topic. Basically, my girl and I are sexually active, and she's got a healthy appetite. Only problem is that I last too long. By that I mean that penetration for over 1 hour and still not close to orgasm. Meanwhile, I bring her to many (usually within 8-12 at least). I'm not sure if she's also compounding the issue a bit - there are times where I bring her to multiple orgasms in 5 minutes and she's unable to go on anymore because she's too sensitive. While lasting too long and having a girl who orgasms easily may be some sort of porno fantasy, I'd like to say it's really not. Though she'd never say it, it's clear she feels very discouraged at not bringing me to orgasm. And likewise whenever I engage in sex, I do my best to make her feel good then end up having to lie next to her letting my erection slowly go down. It's a terrible feeling. We've tried extended foreplay (handjobs, teasing and oral sex), but again she reacts alot to it whereas I just get turned on (but no climax). Handjobs don't seem to work. I end up having to masturbate after sex to relieve myself. I'm hoping someone with history/experience/knowledge can tell me if this is a dysfunction and if so how to fix it. I've read that this might be some sort of delayed orgasm for men but the solutions are vague beyond "see a therapist". Well I live in a pretty conservative society - there are little sex therapists around. And as a recent graduate I don't think I have that kind of money either. Can anyone help? It'd be greatly appreciated!
Are you using Condoms? My Fiancee can't get off with them, so I'm on the pill now we dont have any problems
me and my gf basically have the same problem except we are holding off on actual intercourse till marriage. and she starts orgasming at under 2 minutes and then i cant tell where one ends and the next begins and that lasts till my hand or mouth gets too tired. I though have to switch hands periodically when masterbating so they can last long enough, and my gf cant get me off at all. hopefully on marriage and fulll intercourse this will change.
same problem my xgf would blow me for like 20 mins and it pissed her off... kinda why the relationship diminished cause she would have orgasms just from like making out but i never would
i have exactly the oppisite problem, I'm the girl that can be simulated for over an hour and not climax, while my very loving bf can climax several times
