Hello all. My g/f of 2 yrs and I have a fantastic sex life. Really couldn't ask for anything more. But I kind of stumbled on a fantasy that is driving me crazy. Some time ago I got her a 10" dildo to play around with. One time we were fooling around and she started sucking on it and it drove me wild. Now, when the mood strikes, she sucks on it when were having sex. (By the way she just loves to suck cock) Later we were watching a porno with a girl blowing 3 guys with the usual triple facial as a result. She went nuts watching this and gave me one of the best blowjobs I ever had. So I put 2 and 2 together and now I can't stop thinking about her on her knees blowing me and 2 or 3 other guys at the same time. The thought of her beautiful face covered in gobs and gobs of hot sticky cum is more than I can stand. No screwing, swinging, let get together later etc., just blow and go. A couple problems though. Neither of us have ever been in a 3some of any kind. Fantasy is one thing, I don't want her to think that I think she is just a piece of trash. And last, I don't want to have "buyers remorse" if you know what I mean. No sense screwing up a good thing just for a shot at seeing her covered in jizz. Any thoughts?
I would bring it up to her casually, in an almost joking way, next time you are watching a porn similar. Like "wouldn't it be hot if that were you?" and see how she reacts. Maybe she would be really into it. You could also just ask her depending on how close you guys are.
Some fantasies are best left fantasies. There is a point where sex can get so hot, that somewhere, you cross a line. And this line is different for different people. But the one thing that is the same, is that once you cross it, things are different, and you can't go back. My X was a high priced call girl for a short time, several years before I met her. She had a dynamite body, and she walked around naked alot. And her experiences weighed on my mind, and we absolutely fulfilled every fantasy that we had. But at some point, the sex transcended into something less personal, and into something just plain dirty and erotic. Meaningless. Be careful you don't cross that line. You will be passionately kissing and shooting your load on her one minute, and the next you are straddling her head and beating her face with your cock and trying to blind her with your cum. There is a gradual move from fun to freaky. Be careful is all, if you really love her.
Things progress quickly in the heat of the moment, and lines are crossed if the proper caution isn't taken.
this is hardly related, but is this a really common thing? to cum on a girls face? If someone would mind elaborating, what is the appeal ?(i am genuinely curious)
The warnings others have given are probably right - when your fantasy comes true it will be the end of any caring relationship. If that is what you both want, fine. If not, be careful.
Chainz is right on. You really run the risk of degradation. She won't know it until about the 3rd stream hits or maybe the fact that she is kneeling in the middle of 3 sex-crazy (don't know how you wank, but I tend to forget anything else!) guys. We guys also are noisy, three of us together usually do stuff one wouldn't think of - like grabbing her, holding her up to the dicks, prying her mouth open if she shuts it, etc. Don't think you are any different. The professional women that pose for these "posse" pics are well into the business and there are producers, camera men, and stage hands around to keep things from getting out of control. I wouldn't trust myself with two other guys around to think up ideas. You risk humiliating her, laughing at her, blinding her temporarily (cum in the eyes is bad), and - loosing her for good. If you do it, wait until you're ready to send her on her way. And get a lawyer!