There is those who are asexual, and don't have interest in sex. But asexual people could still be in a relationship (with little or no sex.) I think it's quite possible to be in a loving relationship with no sex. Kissing is also loving.
Sex is kinda meaningless if there's no love. So yeah, I'd give sex up for love, I wouldn't even think twice.
I could not have said it better myself. Its comforting to know that there are still truely good people out there. Its a shame the world is so large!
I believe I have more love feelings than many men whom I know, in general, and romantically talking, and this is why I know that I won't be forgotten by my exes. However, and although I love to love, but I will be honest to myself and to you and say that I cannot imagine it without sex involved. Sex is a genuine part of loving someone, and the more I love her, the more I would need to sleep with her and be 'inside' of her. Damn it! No it can't be without sex! Let's put it this way; a beautiful relationship in my book, is a one package inclusive of emotional feelings and lust, and both are inseparable.
Yes, I would definantly give up sex for love. There is lust and there is love. Which one truly satisfies more? Exactly.... Good luck dude. Vibes to ya. Pax
I can't answer you because I have not been in that situation. I left my last ex because there wasnt enough sex along with other problems. i think if i had been truly in love with him i would have stayed. i think you have to follow your heart and all will be well in your world. we all must follow our own truths.
So you married a girl and for seven years you waited and showed patience and sensitivity and she never consummated the marriage. In 7 years she could not overcome whatever was haunting her even though for 7 years you showed tenderness and patience in the end she fell in love with someone else. Bro, It's cool that you value and respect women. Love is great and all that but try to find some middle ground and get yours dude. It doesn't have to be a one night stand but find yourself a friend and enjoy life. Having sex is not disrespectful or shallow and having just sex will not make you a bad guy. I hope I don't sound like a jerk here but I felt bad for you after reading that. I wish you the best of luck.
I don't want anybody to feel bad for me. Im just sharing this because telling people and listening to people responses helps me understand it. I totally understand where you are coming from and I don't think you're a jerk for telling me your opinion. I know I wouldn't have any problem going out and getting it all the time if I really wanted to. Sometimes I just wonder if all of that is really worth it just for a quick "fix" or if there are more important things in life.