I'm a 21 year old male. I love to have sex, but that's about as close as I come to being like normal men. Most of my friends that are male love to and have sex often, with different types of women. However, I seem to differ from them in that I don't really look for it. It's not that I don't want to have sex, as I would love to, it has been quite awhile, but over the past few months I've had no desire to even begin looking for someone to have intercourse with. I almost seem to not even care about meeting a girl period. Most people are probably reading this and not seeing a problem, but I wonder sometimes if I'm even able to have sex with someone I hardly know. The only people I have ever had sex with were friends prior to the event, and then girlfriends after or before. Why don't I seek sexual relationships like most men my age?
I think you are looking for something more than just a fling. You even say " I wonder sometimes if I'm even able to have sex with someone I hardly know". That is not a problem, its actually a good quality to have. I hope that helps, maybe?
You sound like a genuine guy, not shallow, I really don't see a problem. Sorry if that doesn't help you. But I think it is better not to go looking, you come across as desperate, which is really unattractive. You obviously love sex as you said, but you aren't desperate to go out and hook up with some random chick. Some girl will be lucky to find you.
