How do guys like their handjobs?

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  1. Englishman

    Englishman Member

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    My thoughts entirely. A woman who knows what she is doing can take you to heaven with almost any part of her body.
     
  2. IamnotaMan

    IamnotaMan I am Thor. On sabba-tickle. Still available via us

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    Handjobs?
    I'd say as part of a blowjob ONLY!
    Hands on the base and shaft makes a really good blowjob.

    A handjob without a blowjob wouldnt do anything for me.
    Infact I'd wonder what the hell I was doing there.

    A handjob is what I'd expect from some Christian fundamentalist wacko in 19th Century Virginia or somewhere, who'd attempt sucide shortly thereafter because of the guilt of it : )

    Seriously handjob alone is ..dull.
     
  3. Englishman

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  4. Noclothesneeded

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    I have received many handjobs, there are times or situations where more just isn't possible. Take for instance, driving late at night and your tired, sleepy, miles from home. Some vehicles it would be impossible to get her face close enough for a bj, but a handjob sure keeps me awake. Slow movement, occassionally stopping and gently squeasing my balls, sometimes a firm grip around the shaft before slowly stroking a few times. About anything to keep my mind off of being tired. it is amazing how fast I get out of my pants when she goes for my zipper.
     
  5. marcopolousa

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    I don't like hj. Except mine!
    For instance, I don't like hj during bj: during a bj, hands can be anywhere but should never prevent the mouth to take my whole cock inside.
     
  6. Mothman

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    My lady and I are both adept at satisfying each other with our hands and we get very turned on by it. A well executed simultaneous hand session can be extremely satisfying and with some dirty talk and intimate eye contact it can be heaven.
     
  7. guiltofzeus

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    I'm a girl - so.. maybe this shouldn't count.. but, start out slow, gaining speed until he's on the verge of cumming, you can hear him breathing differently and his body is fully tense, then start playing with his balls or slow your stroke... don't let him cum until you're arm is too tired to go much longer.. also, stroking his dick and playing with the balls at the same time is good.. don't be scared to give his sack a little tug here and there..
    When you finally let him cum, it will have been so built up that cumming will seem like the best thing ever... and instant gratification is too easy.. he'll probably love that you made him wait..

    My fiancee says that these hj's are the best he's ever experienced..
     
  8. jamaican_youth

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    This is what I like/recommend. Always use lube or oil, a dry hand job isn't good, at least for me. start at the base of the balls with the oil and slowly, but still very firmly massage it in working your way up the shaft. then stroke it off next your breast with the head rubbing against your nipple, if you have the firm erect type, even better. Slap the cock against your tits every now and then. I say keep one hand on the balls massaging them while the other works the head, with a long stroke up and down the shaft in between, occasionally use both hands to make a complete rub down motion along the penis using a firm grip (like you're trying to pull the foreskin down as much as you can). If the dude's uncut, put your fingers under the foreskin and rub the head while it's still covered, that feels great.

    And the final and best tip; stick the tip of your tongue down the penis hole while staring straight at him. I guarantee you can drive any guy crazy with that. Oh, one Last thing, if the guy is sitting down and you're kneeling between his legs, hang one of your legs over his, raise it up rest it on his leg. Hard to describe why that looks so good, but it just does, and not many know to do that, not many guys know to ask.
     
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  10. night912

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    Just don't go up and down, at least that's how I don't really like it. Also remember to keep on applying lube and don't go too hard or fast. Since I'm uncut, when my gf was giving me a hj for the first time she was doing that and after awhile it started to hurt. She was pulling the skin down and I was just reaching for the lube.
     
  11. KatelynPaige

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    Hand jobs are the cheap version of blow jobs.
    Blow job, good.
    Hand job, not as good. ;]]
     
  12. OldTroll

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    IMO when we start using labels like hand job or blow job it implies something less than desirable …. something like what a person buys from a street hooker for $20 .... performed much the same way a teenage boy jacks off …. stroke fast and get it over with quickly …. the only goal is cumming!

    Try a more experienced perspective. First of all, the trip is as pleasurable (or more so) than the destination. Picture the genitals as a complex musical instrument. I talented giver of hand/head plays those genitals the way a virtuoso plays the violin …. using rhythm, touch, pressure …. building to a crescendo …. easing back down …. like a symphony of sensation. There are sources of info that describe a multitude of techniques. Comparing giving hand/head the right way to giving a hand job or blow job is like comparing making love to fucking!

    Some basics:
    The only position that works well is facing him between his legs. Best access to his frenulum and taint …. best position to see into his eyes and get feedback. Go slowly …. there’s no rush …. reward him for giving feedback. If you don’t enjoy doing it, then don’t do it …. nothing is as bad as a disinterested partner. Give and you shall receive.


    the Troll behind the curtain sneaks away back into the past …. later guys!
     
  13. beyondhuman

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    Two tricks
    1) twist while you pull any guy can jerk him self straight up and down but they cant twist right from their angle

    2) when you get to the top split your fingers like spock and put that thing between the mid and ring and slide it back down

    #2 is awesome

    that said I have only gotten off from a handjob one time and that was after at least an hour and while looking at porn. Its more of a foreplay thing than a get him off thing but it still is really nice
     
  14. OldTroll

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    Sure you can twist when you masturbate. Try this secret Troll technique:

    Grab your thingy in a "backhand grip" or "milk-maid grip" - -
    That's where your hand is wrapped around your joystick, but backwards, thumb and index finger near the base and pinkie finger near the head. This puts your finger tips on the underside of your penis where there are the highest concentration of nerves and it. Start with long slow twisting strokes ... plenty of lube ... then experiment.

    Practice, practice, practice!



    Have fun and play safely!
     
  15. AlexMartin79

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    I highly disagree... enjoying the feeling while someone else does that is a great experience.

    Personally, I enjoy the basics - pumping it - and fast. If she gets tired, she switches hands so quickly that I can barely realize... and if she does it long enough, I am going to finish, and it's going to feel great, no matter the circumstance.

    Yesterday, however, I came at a much different time... although she went fast for most of the handjob, she was going slowly and tightly, with her grip centered about halfway down my penis when I came. Holy crap amazing, I have to say.

    Really, it's personal opinion though. If you really want to know, just ask. Don't ask while you're doing it though, because if you're jerking him off, and you ask if he likes it, he's obviously going to say yes.

    -AM79-
     
  16. real_large

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    Here's the secret to giving the best handjob ever: Put your hands over your head, and use your pussy.

    :hurray:
     
  17. OldTroll

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    Fingers, thumbs, palms, lips, teeth, tongues .... together they all can do a zillion things that no pussy in the world can even begin to do!

    Fingers, thumbs, palms, lips, teeth, tongues .... together they all can do a zillion things that no cock in the world can even begin to do!

    - - ¡uʍop ǝpısdn ʇı op - -



    Have fun, play safely, and eat your honey!
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    shes dressed In Domination gear and shes stroking me with a black leather glove coated with baby oil... :) oh yeah..
     
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