I'm bi and I recently accepted that I am and there is this guy I hang out with a lot. He's probobly the first real and true friend I have ever had in my 17 years. I have really got to know him before I found out I was bi. Recently I figured out that I'm falling in love with this guy but I don't know if hes straight bi or gay. But I've been a little more loving to him but I don't know if he just thinks that I'm being a really good friend to him or if maybe hes figured it out. I've doing a lot more to connect with him and I'm just really unsure and I'm afraid to tell him because it might freak him out a bit if he is straight. I feel like I'm in a huge rut.
I've never been a brave guy so I have a hard time getting the guts to tell him because I always get ready to but when I'm about to I can't do it. Maybe I just need more time.
u should tell him ur bi first and see how he reacts alot of guys when u tell them this type of thing thaire first question is liek "oh r u atracted to me cause i dont swing that way" so waite a bit after telling em ur bi before u tell him u liek him...thats what i think.
There is a really hot guy that works at my company, but I don't know if I should take it there with him. Of course he doesn't know that I would even remotely be bicurious, but after seeing him come into the gym wearing a company shirt, I struck up a conversation with him and we kind of hit it off. He's a bit of the tall model type, and works in a different part of the building, so I only see him at the gym. He says he's leaving the company soon to go back to school, so maybe I might get his number so we can hang out. I consider myself a top, but I would so be this guy's bottom any time he asked for it... He's pretty hawt.
OMG I so understand. There is a guy where I work that I would do anything he wanted of me... and I mean anything. He is sooooo cute. I'm more into cute guys than hot guys and he is the definition of cute.
I'm about as masculine as they get in Black men, but this guy is goregous. 6'2", 180lbs, dark features, stbble, and so on. Very model-like. And I just think to myself: I would drop to my knees at any given moment for this guy. Not to the point of leaving my wife and kids, but I'd go from a top to bottom exclusively for this guy.
does that happin are thaire guys out thaire that are so hot/cute that u do w/e they want. i havent ever expirenced this like i have a list of things i just wont ever do but will i some day brake them all for some one ubber atractive?
I guess it just depends on you and the kind of person you have the hots for. Even though I completely adore (and then some ) this guy, there are still some things I wouldn't do, like toss his salad. I can't imagine myself ever doing that with anybody.
Well I told him. He was cool about it and just asked how long I've known. He didn't say anything else after that and he still is the exact same person hes always been to me (which I'm relieved about).But I don't know what I should do now? Would it be cool to tell him I love him when we are both tripping acid or not so much?
Don't do that... Nudge him a little to see where he stands at with you coming on to him. Love is such a strong word, and if said too soon without really knowing him completely, then you'll lose a great friend.
- that is soo true - just see how it goes for now then if the time comes / if you feel it is right do so.
