ok im new to this soo here we go my gf and i want to try anal sex but she is a little afraid of the pain and any internal trouble. i personally enjoy it and well i was the giinei pig u may say.lol i like it so much she wanted to try but i am 6'3in at 200lb while she 5' or so at 100lb the size diff is the problem. i want to know what i should do to comfort her and make it a wonderful experience from the start. like whats the best lube or numbing thing and what should be the first thing to go in and then how sould i move to my size. also what are some thing she can do to me to heightin the fun
Bad Idea alert: NO NUMBING SHIT!!! If you do really hurt her she wont be able to feel it which can be VERY dangerous in this kinda thing. Use a silicone based lube, which is what I perfer in Anal. Start with fingers (use latex gloves) and work up SLOWLY. Anal takes TIME.
First and foremost...Lots of foreplay..go slowly..then lots of lube..Start small and work your way up to penetration.. As sarahrei stated no numbing shit..Silicone based lube is awesome for anal but be sure not to use too much as it could possibly cause vaginal infections . I can't use it for vaginal sex at all ..There is one call Eros that is great..And clitoral stimulation during anal will send her over the edge..
ok thank you all for ur advice ill take is slow with her is there any speacial trick or somethink i could do to make her feel better or have a better orgasium while im playing with her ass she think if i can take her mind off it it will go easyer idk just wondering and does any one know of any good toys for her aka a starter thing and something larger for me
Plugs are ment for anal, so I would recommend those for you as beginners, if it doesn't have a flaired base I wouldn't use it as the anus likes to suck things into it. Going to the ER about a lost toy is embarrsing. Play with her clit, maybe have a drink (ONE) before to relax her, give her a massage.
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