My Girlfriend and I

I have a minor problem here. My girlfriend is naturally a very horny person, so every time I am with her (Which is almost every day) she wants to have sex once or more. I, however, am not that horny and can't find any way to tell her that I just don't want to have sex because whenever I kinda just push her off and try to say that I'm not in the mood she gets all emotional about it. I really do care about her, but with her it seems she wants the relationship to be much more physical than I; I want more of a mental connection (Which we had at first, but it has kinda faded... )

So yeah, is there any way to either let her know without hurting her (Which I might have to do, lots of things do since she is very sensitive) or make her less horny (Which I don't know how is possible.)

Kinda weird problem since most people probably wouldn't mind all the sex, but for some reason it has really been getting to me lately.

Thanks

 

Tell her to find a way to seduce you. I used to go out with a girl who was an expert on finding ways to get me horny again after I thought I was done. But having compatible sex drives is an important part of a relationship, so if you can't work it out you may want to consider moving on and finding someone more suited to you. But if that happens, send your girlfriend my way.

 

Or post a forum about it for her to find.
That always seems to work.


I'm already aware of all of this, except the fact that our "mental connection" is fading. Talk to me about it yourself, asshole.

 

Ooohh snap. Busted.

 

hahaha,
damn dude you're bagged.

 

I'd gather your thoughts on the whole relationship and hand it to her on a plate, one day soon.
She is going to get "emotional" anyway, you might as well get it all out in the open.
It might make her think about any issues she has with you.
Just get all this crap out into the daylight - you might as well.

 

Seems she may think you are an asshole.

 

lol

 

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you guys still together?

 

Well, I am just pointing this out... But he obiviously felt he didn't know how he could talk about it with you. I don't think he is an asshole just for trying to find a way to make your relationship work. I don't see why you are mad. He is just trying to find a way to be a good lover for you and your mad about that. Pfft sometimes I just don't get people.


Tiffany

 

buy her a vibrator

 

It's quality not quantity. Try and find a compromise with her.

 

yer, if you really love her and she really has a need for large amounts of sex perhaps let her sleep around? I duno man but when a girl isnt satisfied then eventually she will find a way to satisfy herself and that may mean cheating

 

he hasn't come back yet....

woops

 

So, rumor has it that you're a horndog?

 

^^^ lol, yeh, Xezbeth, wanna meet up sometime ? You need a real man

 

Yea I want to know if they are still together!

 

Xezbeth you are clearly in need of more sexual attention. Given that there are about 40,000 guys on here everyday that complain that they are not getting enough sex, I am sure you could find one to give you what you need. Any guy that complains about a girlfriend that wants sext too often is either on anti-depressant meds or needs to see a psychiatrist. Sex-Good. No Sex-Not Good.

 

Just so people will stop posting shit on here mainly now.
This issue has been resolved.

We are still together.
Good sex life now (Better than ever)

Sex is not everything. Sex by itself to me, actually is quite uninteresting.

Take some advice from a great man: Aldous Huxley:

It's amazing how our society puts so much importance on something that by itself is nothing spectacular (Unless it is for a baby, then that is a different story).

 

hahahaaaaa. this has to be fake it's perfect!!! good luck bud