She has been in the same mindset for almost 40 yrs. She didn't like cum then and doesn't now. If she is going to let me jerk off and cum on her body, I have to lick it off of her. I have no objection, never did. I would rather lick it off of her, than jerking off alone, that's for sure. Any other guys lick it off of their wife or gf? Any good stories?
That kind of sounds like a dominance thing. I would not think to deeply about my girl refusing to allow me to cum on her but if she suggested that she would accept my cum if I licked it off her we would have a problem. I don't make any judgement about what others do but that is not for me.
I think it's great that your ok with that. I personally don't like cum on my but I never say no to my man.