hey guys

what is it exactly that makes someone gay, i know u are born with it but is it the actual genitals that does it for some people, and the fact that its a mans ass, to all gay men on here please answer cause i am quite confused in myself and have being for the last 4 years now, if u ever have being with a women what was it about the sex with a women that u didnt like what did it feel like, was there any moment in that sexual encourter that felt disgusting, and does women genitals make ur stomach turn or anything

 

i dunno what the exact atraction is its alot of things but being bi i dont find women disgusting so i dunno what to tell u about that but dude u really need to just get laid

 

- one of many on hear - dude serosly get out and get some cock.

 

Man, I don't really dig the whole advocation of promiscuity. Let this dude work himself out. He's not going to suddenly work his sexuality out overnight by sucking another dude's dick. Don't go out and just fuck some random dude, unless you're keen on catching gonorrhea or something. Depending on what kinda person you are, it'd probably be better to know the dude you're going to get it on with and let him know where you're coming from first. But it may actually help to do something physical with another dude or girl just to see if it feels right or not.

As for answering your question on attraction: It's different for everyone. It's probably just something in your head that you aren't aware of. I mean, on the basis of looks, I have NO idea why I find the type of men I do attractive, but I just do. My brain is wired so that I find that type of dude good looking. Of course I can say that I find the type of guy I like more "cuddly" and more manly, but the reason I like that - no idea. I dont think anyone knows why they find the type of people they do physically attractive.

Second question...Vaginas don't freak me out though. I doubt I'd get it on with a girl, but it does look like it'd feel pretty damn good to do it with one :S Thankfully God invented an amazing thing called buttsecks so we don't have to resort to doing it with ladies

 

i juts feel that if i got to know i a guy that i liked i cud take him home, and get it on with him though, the thought ov having sex with a guy seems to appeal to me very much, but its like dont know what to do just feel proper fucked in my head, i have sex with like 7 girls and i seemdd to ov enjoyed it but then think was it all a lie, i mean does anal with a guy hurt, i mean when i think about a guy doing it to me it seems very nice does that mean i am gay/bi

 

yes its al confusing cause ur just speculating so to expirence it will make things much cleerer

 

is this how gay people start off, when u think ov sex with a man, does it feel nice, and to all uu gays have u ever slept wioth a women

 

- That can be how many people discover that they relay are gay or not at all is by experimentation and through self relaliashion.
- Also aplogies if i may be a bit blunt and out of order with my previous post but often with most issues, the way to tackle it is to go for it when you are reday.

 

1) I am gay but i have tried to f... myself straight. Basically it didn't work for me. The vagina is simply not appealing sexually. I look at it and don't really feel anything. I don't think its disgusting, it just looks as plain as an ear or a big toe.

2) ukpokerplayer? If you are a regular poker player, don't overlook the fact that you may be relying on poker to give you a positive lift and to fill in a life with no relationship.

3) What makes you gay? Well if you see a fairly handsome guy with no clothes on and it gives you a response ranging from a tingle to a rock hard erection, that's a good sign. If you get an erection in a public shower but you otherwise don't think about guys sexually, then it probably means you are not gay. It really comes down to internet habits in my opinion. If you are looking up gay porn, you're bi or gay. Curious is a term for guys who don't want to admit that their preference is anything other than totally straight.

 

i think it does give me a tingle, when i see a naked man, but i juts obsses with the cock, thats the thing though i do think ov guys sexually, and now thinkibng of relationships with with men, its just my ex who was a girl, she new about all this and she was convinced i had HOCD, and they told me on the website i did aswell, which fucked me up even more, i trusted her, we are no longer friendss and she calls me a bent twat, and going u are going to get ur ass fucked till it bleeds, which isnt nice to hear,but i fantasize in my head opening mens trousers pulling down hi8s boxers and seeing this massive cock to suck, and an ass to fuck, sorry for the graphic but i feel like i am beibng myself these days

 

- too true - there is no point prenting to be someone who you are not.

Also ukpokerplayer - put your ex behind you - completely - she is just pissed and tacking it out at you because of the brake up and the fact that she cant accept you - your better then that - ignore her.
2nd of all i got to be honest but you may need some professional help about this - if you want me to i could find someone who can help.

- also feel free to pm me for my number if you want to talk to me over the phone.

Tim G

 

when u say porffesional help what do u mean mate, thanks for ur words they are helping

 

I mean counseling etc

 

what will councelling do though mate, they aint gonna be able to tell me if i am gay staright, or will they, i mean if i get told i am gay, i just feel like nothing will change in my head

 

- True - working out your sexualitie is something that you have to worck out for your self. - I mean we and i will help you but unforunitlie cant make you gay or straight or bi. But finding yourself will come - experiment with others see how it goes and take advice. - But most important take it easy it could take time but there is a anser.

 

so me sleeping with a man. and i man fucking my brains out will make me found the answer, because i already feel like i am attracted to men, in the sencde i look at a guy and think wow he is nice, is that aq clear sign, sorry for my punctuation its juts i get on here and just say anything that comes to my mind

 

What i mean is meet some guys and see what it is like. - E.g. get to know the guy (go out if u want to thick of it that way) and then see how it goes from there.
- I don't think that just having sex for the sake of it would be the complete answer
- It takes time but i am sure you will get there - go for it.

 

I dont really think women made me gay... I think its just the fact i was attracted to men, i havent had sex with women ... Never wanted to...

I am a true supporter of the fact that someone is gay from birth... and it drives me crazy when people say "They picked to be gay..."

I DIDNT PICK TO BE GAY! I WAS BORN THIS WAY! I HAVE NO PROBLEM WITH IT!

ok that felt good hahhaa.

 

i have had sex with women and seemed to enjoy it, what does that make me

 

bi pansexual pollyamores w/e i know it feels like ur becoming some one else that u dont really know but u will get to know ur new self thre the relationships u make and brake now so u need to go make some stat with in the next month u should go find a guy and fuck him also i think u need liek a hobby like a physical one do some sort of sport to help deal with stress