I've been dating this guy for 2 years. He's the only guy I've ever been in love with and we plan on moving to San Francisco in December. His entire life he has had severe back problems. Since he was 16 (he's 24 now), his back has had constant issues and severe pain. YEARS of severe pain. He has been suicidal for the longest time and right now it's really bad. He's not emo at all but I can see how sad he is all the time. He's just really freaking me out right now and I have no one to talk to about it. Life just fucked him over, once more again and all I wanna do is support him but I'm really afraid he'll hurt himself. He's not the type that will be suicidal for attention and I'm really afraid that someday he will hurt himself. He left me a message requesting that I take care of his dog when he dies and he's cutting himself tonight. I know he will because he always does when he gets this upset. He says the pain will make him feel better. But he's very drunk right now and he doesn't even drink. So I'm worried it'll fuck him up more. It sucks cause I just left for Florida and he's home in Michigan. I can't get to him in time. I hope he's just so drunk that he just falls asleep while preying to the porcelain gods and wakes up tomorrow with a hang over and just forgets about hurting himself all together.
he could be vitamin b deficient my standard reply to this stuff is to start him on some vitamin and mineral supplements to try and sort his head out get him out walking and doing more physical activities and keep him off drugs these kinds of people need order in their life to sort them out which pretty well means regular meals and regular times of going to bed, they need more routine in their life.
be careful, suicidal talk is often used to manipulate. i'd call the suicide hotline and talk to them if i were you. they can fill you in on what the issues are.
If he drinks he probably will commit suicide since drinking makes you more depressed and also affects judgement. So b vitamins help with depression huh? Ive been taking tension rx and it contains vitamin b-6. I dont take it for depression but for anxiety. I was in the hospital and before I went in I was severly depressed but shortly before I got out I had alot of anxiety so I needed something. Doctors wont give me Xanax. I was suicidal before I went in. I got shock treatment and that helped. He should try shock treatment.
humm do the same thing that we do to execute convicts as we do to help with depression. interesting any way exercise and again vitamin B are good things also take him out to see some good things like parks or a trip somewhere anything to get his mind off things. and keep him from drugs. or get him into video games(just no world of warcraft)
Shock treatment used for criminals isnt the same as the type used for depression. It shouldnt be confused with that. It helped stabilize me and get me back to where i was before i had the severe depression. It often times works faster than medications.
huum i did not know that and apologize for that. watched beautiful mind to much. only shocl treatment ive ever had was my brother tazering me. still to this day i have no idea what i did to deserve that lol
