I am at a friend house right now. I have known this girl for 5 years now. I have been in love with her every since I met her. I write this as she lays passed out right now a few feet away from me (she, another friend of ours and myself had a run in with a little friend of mine, Johnny Walker =) ) anyhow I explained how I felt towards her just a couple hours ago. And she said she always felt the same way, but felt this was not the time for us to act on such feelings because neither of us were ready. I'm currently dating her best friend, I am her best friend as well (wtf right?). I don't know what to do, I'm FLIPPING THE FUCK OUT. I can't believe I said this I'm so embarrassed and Jesus Christ.... I sound like such a dumb fuck. Why does love do this to people BAH! Anyway I left her a detailed love note incase she forgot what we spoke about last night. She agreed to have a detailed conversation tommorow so I'm looking foward to that, but FUCK I've never been so nervous about anything in my entire life. What the fuck is wrong with me? Holy shit I'm freaking out. NEED ADVICE NOW!
First off... dont listen to that guy.... second off, dont get mad if she doesnt remember, third, break up with your girlfriend before you do anything hurtful... getting dumped sucks but getting cheated on can really mentally screw with you... all in all... stay calm
thank you niemiway, Although there was no chance of me cheating on her (by either party) I found your advice to be good anyway. It was headed that way anyway. things have reverted back to the pink elephant in the room again between me and this other girl however which sucks because I though we'd be able to talk about this and we never really got to it and now I feel like it will never happen, FYI she still claims to have never read the note, don't know if that's true or not but now I feel assed out All I want is a serious sober talk, is that so much to ask?
nope go for it talk to her and find out whats up but its very unfair to ur current GF to dumb her or cheat on her just because u love this girl i say think carefully wait a bit let the girl the sleeping one think about it for a bit then ask her
