Also, I love her with all of my hear so even is she wont do it I will still love her. It will suck but that is life.
Sorry, but I pretty much agree with Patrick on this one. It isn't such a bad idea to dump her and find someone else really... Especially if getting oral is a big thing to you, and she won't do it. The sex life is a very important part of any healthy relationship. I mean, what is all the rest of it even really for if the sex isn't working? Isn't that specifically why men and women have relationships? Because they're potential sex partners? All the rest of it can be acheived within friendships, especially with people of the same sex. So a relationship is supposed to be all of that, plus the sex right? For me this would be too big of an issue for it to work. But I would think it would be an issue that you'd become aware of early, and not after you had been with someone for a long time... The whole thing about not sucking dick shows that a girl isn't a whore... Simply broken logic. Where do you come up with that? A girl bragging about not doing it is like a guy bragging about having a small penis, in my opinion.