not at the same level

hey,
i've been with my boyfriend, for already 6 months..
and like he said that in the beggining he had a boner just by holding my hand. and now it takes him a LOT more to get exited...
i know its normal..

but the problem is, that for me, the smallest kiss or the littlest touch gives me butterflies...

but he sais it doesnt, we were kissing for 10 minutes he sais he didnt felt horny at all, but me i just loved it...

is that normal?
does he not love me anymore or somehting? ...
what do you think of that?

 

Maybe try something new, or just fool around with each other more. Making out for some people just isn't as exciting as it is for some. Try to see what he like and gets him excited. Ask him if you could do something different?!

 

dont worry any other guy would get hard. maybe hes gay

 

Maybe you need to take it up a notch? Have you talked about what "gets him going"?

 

mmm. even if he isn't getting 'turned on' - i would hope he still enjoys kissing you and snuggling with you because, it's you. you know? it's not all about sexual relationship but instead having an intimate ground too.

 

i love kissing, it gets me going real fast lol. But hes young (you are too), so im sure hes still quite unsure of how his feelings relate to his body....just be patient, and only go with what feels natural. I can tell you right now, he enjoys making out. even if he doesnt get hard. i mean how could you not, what the hell? And to say that he doesnt have feelings for you because he doesnt get hard after a makeout sesh is false....that just means his body and mind is adjusting and getting used to making out lol...nothing wrong with that, its totally natural if you ask me...If you feel comfortable with him and the idea, "taking it up a notch" would make him very happy lol.

 

normal!

 

How old is your boyfriend? I'm 44 and I get all excited just thinking about snuggling and kissing.

 

i like the kissing on the neck and shoulder..... dirty talk..... to try and get him aroused dirty chat touch... smell.... i'd say its normal as my bf gets aroused by what what i wear and smell and specially touch.... try laying on the bed and cuddling and chatting might get him going if you use a soft voice..... tried it in the dark

 

time for you to hold out then on they guy

only for a while like a week or longer

 

It's normal for a guy to wear down a little on the sexual motivation as he gets more used to the things you do that arouse him.

I wouldn't worry about it too much, he's not becoming impotent or anything. Just try to find new ways to spark him. You'll probably be pleasantly suprised by the results you get.

 

May be I'm a little bit old-fashioned, but onestly I do not feel good for the idea of a girl your age talking about horniness and boners with adults here! I am sorry I reallllly don't man to be rude to you AT ALL.

The thing is you don't need to tell any of us about your sexual life at this age, and we don't need to know.

You're at the age of exploring things, I understand that well. However I am sure that life will teach you a lot of things about guys, sex, and stuff. You don' wanna get influenced at this age by a certain perspective of a any older person, who can be right or wrong, exactly like you!

Experience in life will answer all "or most" of your questions.

Just because I cannot leave you without any help, I'd say think twice, may be your guy is not he right one for you. We have stronger feelings when we're younger, so it's really easy to meet someone and think that they're the best for us, when the truth is that they're not.

Sex is in the head mainly dear! If he has this much of feelings for you, then TRUST ME he'd always have a boner for you even after long years together. Condom is the girl's best friend. NEVER have sex without it ok? You have no idea how bad some STIs can be, and condom can play a major role totally blocking the worst of them "HIV" and diminishing the risk of others.

Have an awesome day, and be safe!

 

People are fundamentally sexual, they're going to talk about it at any age. Did you notice the original poster's username was morgasm? This person obviously came here to talk about sex or at least had sex on the mind when she signed up.

The mid teens are when the sex drive is usually at its height, and besides, this is a hippie/free love/open sexuality type web site anyway. 'Make love not war' and all that stuff.

There's nothing wrong with having old fashioned values, coming from a social background of traditional values I've expressed my share of old fashioned opinions on here myself. But I can't see a sexual person speaking openly about sexual issues as non-traditional. Its more like a natural expression of a natural condition.

 

Your opinion is really appreciated. I said what I believe is right, not because of any traditions at all, but because the OP is illegal to begin with, hence should not discuss fucking and boners with adults, let alone that despite this forum is beautiful, but some predators think of internet forums as an 'open playground' to creep on teens as soon as they start saying / expressing something sexual.

What they have on their minds when they do that is entirely different from the decent website's policy, conditions, and spirit i.e. "make love not war" and all the stuff.

However this is a mere opinion that can be right or wrong, but I posted my previous post originally because I believed that the odds my thought is right overweigh the other possibility, taking the legal value into my consideration as well.

I love the free love / open sexuality...ec. style myself hence I am here, but again it has nothing to do with the fact that illegal minors can expose themselves easily to creeps during the process. Do I make 'any' sense?

I understand that sex is obviously on her head since the minute she yawns in the morning waking up, but the thing is that I advised her not to share this stuff with adults on the web, but she can have sex on her mind and talk to her friends close to her age about it as much as she wants. Having sex with someone close to her age and falls within the permitted age category is not wrong, but again and finally the wrong is the 'interaction' with adults concerning sexual issues, which may lead to exposure to predators who lurk on websites waiting.

Period.

 

You only have to be 13 to post on the site. She has that beaten by 2 years. If someone of legal adult age decides to take advantage of members who are still minor they are the one breaking the law.

This is a free speech forum as long as no one is being violated the poster should be able to speak her mind.

 

Thanks for your opinion! Again it is much appreciated!

 

I appreciate the fact that you stand by your convictions. It's good to see that people still have core values and stand by them.

 

I'm very aware of what can be on internet, and trust me I am prudent. That's why on this website, you do not write your personal information of where you live or your name specifically. I agree with Woodsman, but I understand the concern of Eternal Soul. Thank you for understanding.

 

I'm glad you're playing it safe and being careful. That's always the best way to go.

 

how old is your boyfriend? is he the same age as you?