Traumatic masturbatory syndrome?

Hey
All I have ever known is masturbating on my front - I have never done it using my hands, I rub my penis against the bed. I now find I cannot do masturbation the conventional way.

What is the best tip for learning to masturbate normally? And is there any truth to TMS (Traumatic Masturbatory Syndrome) in your experiences?

Many thanks.

 

Just do whatever you want
you're a free monkey!

 

stalk couldn't have said it any better.

 

yay yayee!

 

I have a friend who can only masturbate on his front. It's fine. If you want to wank normally, get some porn, pull down your pants and jerk away

 

pillow, bed, fridge, dog poo - do whatever works for you!

 

Im 39, and I've been doing TMS since I was. .. under the age of 10.

Can you go back to masturbating normally?
Theoretically yes, but it takes time. It really depends on how long you've been doing it.

Is there a danger in practicing TMS?
Speaking physically it is unknown at this time. The biggest problem comes when you actually start having sex with a partner like I did. You wont be able to have an orgasm during intercourse, this causes problems in the relationship.

Is it reversible? Yes but that also takes time. I know because I was able to do it.

I made a website about it http://www.angelfire.com/ca/tsunamilord/tms.html

 

I think that is adorable!!

 

It may be cute, but he actually could spend his life having a very hard time ever getting off with his partner, I've encountered a few men that had unusual ways of getting themselves off, weither it being really rough etc. that I've had a very hard time getting off usually taking hours of work.

 

It took me 7 months to orgasm with my wife.

 

um
why?

 

TMS masturbation produces an unbalanced sensation in the penis.

Regular hand masturbation causes sensation in the shaft of the penis which as you may know mimics that of sexual intercourse.

TMS masturbation causes sensation in the testicles and on the underside of the penis. This is the problem and its partially psychological. This doesn't mean that the topside of your penis is unsensitive. In sexual intercourse your testicles . . .well just hang there. . and dont recieve the stimulation that your used to.

This is why men who have regularly practiced TMS masturbation have a hard time reaching orgasm in sex. It is possible to retrain your self but it isnt going to happen overnight.