Im gonna be having my first time next week sometime and im just like want to know a few things 1. will we be ok without condoms , were both male and clear of STD although i did have unprotected anal for like 10 seconds but it wasnt even proper and will we be ok with vaseline instead of lube ? should i be worried i thought about taking it in steps kissing, feeling/ sucking nipples ( fetish ), fingering , sucking balls , blow jobs/hand jobs,then anal ?
Ya might get by without condoms but heres the thing, Sooner or later you are gonna need to use condoms to be safe...why not start with good habits? Just my thoughts. Have fun and good to each other.