She has orgasm after orgasm during intercourse, 4, 5, 6 or more. It's my favorite part of sex. But oral, while all indications are she really enjoys it, she's ready to stop after one. I want to keep going. She's not able (or doesn't want) to articulate a reason. Of course I'm not pressing the matter. Any ideas? Experiences? Theories? Thanks!!
.too much direct stimulation of the clitoris....could be the problem. Slightly off to one side or the other is usually a better spot than right on it! Also Try finding that g-spot with your fingers while your mouth is busy on the outside parts. But the same rule applies....not too hard....U need to find the perfect amount of pressure. If She's a Squirter...maybe shes afraid to cum when your mouth is all over her??
squirters are aweome! Some girls come more from penetrative sex others through oral, so it might not be your technique, its her prference, if you want the oral tolast longer try and bring her to climax point, then stop and tease her, the more times you do this the better the outcome (within reason). happy humping.
Oral + g-spot stimulation...OMG..it will send her over the edge.It does to me..one night counted at least 9 orgasms..squirted every time..Direct stimulation on the clit, or even indirect, is very intense and clitoral orgasms are the kind that make you clamp your legs shut and damage your partners eardrums..lol..once is enough until things are back to normal. G-spot/vaginal -back to back orgasms..throw in a clitoral towards the end..oh yeah...
My wife has had as many as 3 bacl to back orgasms from oral but said after the first, any more actually begin to make her very raw and hurt later. So we just stop after the first. As far as squirting, if she is a squirter you will know after she fills your mouth with her love juices.
After she cums, give her a minute or two to calm down (to a degree) with no stimulation on her clit. It has become waaaayyyyyyy too much for her. Concentrate on holding her, licking her nipples and other parts of her body. I like to go down slowly the first time, licking my way, tease her by not going to her clit right away. Once she cums, I go back up and the WHOLE process starts again. We've gone 4-5 hours that way.
When I have g-spot orgasms, I don't have to stop at all in between. I can have multiple orgasms in a row from sex. When it comes to clitoral orgasms (which I've only had by myself, never from anyone else ) I get really sensitive afterwards and need a considerable amount of time in between. Usually I don't like more than one clitoral orgasm. So...either wait at least 10 mins, or accept the fact that it might be too sensitive.
Try stimulating her clitoral area, not the actual clit. With a little practice you'll be able to find where it happens without pressuring the clit to the point of hurt. It will take a bit longer, but that helps too. And then you can graduate to the even better co-stimulation of both the clitoral and the 'G' spot, which will leave a hole in your roof where she went through. And finally, after she's been all over heaven and earth, try the triple double ender: clitoral stim. with the tongue, 'G' spot with a finger, and - as things build, but not too quickly - anal stimulation (just penetrate a little bit to stimulate the inner and outer surfaces of the anal sphyncter with thumb and pinky, middle finger, or index finger.) At last she'll love you forever - provided that you give up your day job and remain in bed doing it over and over again.