rudeness that annoys you

Mine is people who talk at you, you know they come up share something with you and finish and as soon as you start to share something with them you hear 'oh theres mike whats he doin' and they're gone. Ali did that to me yesterday at work I swear I could of gone nuts at her for that but I would of had to find her and yea I'm too lazy for that

So what rudeness annoys you people?

 

my aunty she is a white person kind of like a cracker

well anyways she just walks up to random people and tells them random stuff about what she did or whats going on in her life

then i am like "what the hell is you major melfunction?"

 

People that don't let you respond are pretty irritating.

 

people that wont even say good morning at the start of a day and make no effort to communicate when you try your best to make friends. damn thats annoying. also P&Qs.....come on? dont people learn basic manners as a kid these days?!......well probably not actually.

 

i have a job cashiering part time. i ALWAYS tell people to "have a good day/night" and say thank you. most people say "you too"...but the people who say nothing at all are fuckwads.

i've checked out people who apparently do not know how to communicate. i've asked people questions, commented about the weather, talked about what they were buying, and some people will respond with a blank stare. what's wrong with you? are you afraid to talk? i know some people have social anxiety or are in a bad mood or whatev, but damn! it seems to happen at least a couple times a day...

oh, and as long as we're on the subject of retail anoyances...what's up with the people who INSIST on getting a plastic bag for one fucking item?!? it's just as easy to carry them out! sometimes i just tell people we're out of bags cuz i think it's wasteful.

 

as a worker in a resturant, its people who leave their table absolutly trashed. half eaten shit all over the table and shit. i mean, come on. i wait on you, bring you food and all that. the least you could do is organize your shit so i dont have to spend 10 min trying to clean up your leftovers

 

I hate people who stop their shopping cart on the left....and reach for items on the right........and you know they see you waiting but they just make you wait...


I think those bars on the front of the carts were made for bashing the achilles of those assholes

 

I used to work retail...we'd get these crazy bitches that had to look through the clothes on the racks at 100mph, tearing the clothes halfway off the hangers and leaving the racks a mess, which of course I had to sort out later. And then of course they don't buy anything. Once I had these 2 Cuban women who came in with their FOUR kids (it was a small place) and they immerse themselves in shopping and completely ignore it when there kids are tearing around all over the place, and when I try and give them a polite look, like "maybe you should grab your bratty kid..." they give me one of those smiles that people give you when they think somethings humorous and they want you to think it's funny too, even though you don't think it's cute at all.

I also HATE people that are rude to waiters. People that stoop that low have zero class. And people who just complain too much at restaurants in general...like, I doubt the staff has a conspiracy against you, they have a stressful job and if your meat is medium rare instead of rare I'm pretty sure you're not gonna die.

Come to think of it, I hate people that complain all the time in general...they'll never be satisfied, so what's the point in trying to make them happy?

-Kate

 

People that don't tip. I have yet to work as a waiter or any job where I had to work off tips, but not tipping just gets on my nerves.

 

idk if it's really rudeness.
but people that are mean to their children.
I'm a swimming instructor for the YMCA and I just see some things you wouldn't believe.
obviously I'm not a parent.
but I just can't imagine a reason to yank a two year old by his arm and drag him back 5 feet to the site of your ten-minute-long conversation about pilates or whatever.
happened today. it made me sick. he was literally being dragged backward by his little arm.

 

I hate this too. Just walking around the streets sometimes, you hear people yelling at toddlers like theyre dogs, swearing at them, all kinds of things Not so much here, but where I used to live, further north in the UK, it was very common. Basically child abuse, yanking them around and screaming in their faces, then screaming even more because theyre screaming

I also cant stand it when total STRANGERS stand closer to me than my own husband usually does...basically breathing down my neck or touching me, in queues or walking around. I want to SCREAM get the hell out of my personal space, I cant breathe! I dont know you! ARGH

I also cant stand strangers talking at me without saying "excuse me". Its basic courtesy. But oh no, they just launch into their speech regardless of how I may be feeling or if Im even aware if theyre talking to me

And I hate those people in the streets that shove leaflets into my hand before I get the chance to decline. Why force it onto me, what a waste of paper

 

i kinda like it when people do that sometimes. it's random and sometimes fun.

but then, i'm like 2/3 cracker.

 

it wouldn't make it okay, if you were a parent, but you might empathize a little.

think of animals in the wild. are those mamas always nice to their young? not fucking hardly. everyone has a limit.

 

Well the ones Im talking about are obviously just being mean because theyre nasty people. Honestly. Theres no need to yell in a toddlers face, swear at them, tell them to shut the fuck up and drag them around, thats just abuse, and it really did used to happen quite a bit where I used to live. God it was a shithole. I still see it around now but its rarer. I can completely empathise with the odd losing of temper or impatience by a parent, Ive worked with kids a while. But some of what I see is just not right

 

i have lost it and yelled in my toddlers' faces. of course, that's why i went on medication.

 

I hate that when I used to work at a smoothie shop I would go out of my way to talk to the fuck wads who wouldnt respond when I said thanks or etc..

 

I hate cell phone douchebags who can't take the damn thing away from their soon to be cancer ridden head for more than 2 seconds. And those bluetooth wearing fags also.

 

I really hate those Christians that stand in the street and try to convert you.
I was siting outside my flat the other day, having a ciggy, minding my own business when this guy approaches me out of the blue and starts preaching to me about Jesus.
I politely explained that I wasn't interested and that I already had a religion (I'm a Wiccan) but he just kept fucking going!
And about a week later he came up to me again!

Look, if I wanted you to save my soul I'll ask, alright?!

 

People asking you a string of questions and interrupting you halfway through your first sentence with their next question.

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When I ring up a customer at work and they're more interestred with the cellphone or bluetooth in their ear than you. UGH!