she realised last nite but she realised 25 DAYS after my birthday and she onli remembered coz i said sumthin about my age n she remembered, if i didnt she would still not know. its not like im mad at her 4 nt gettin me anythin, i just feel bad coz she forget it n all i wanted 2 hear was her was happy bday she apologised n felt bad last nite, i said it was ok, but 2day shes back 2 normal n actin like nuthin happened....
Yeah, I'd be pretty upset. To me that means you aren't important enough to know things about or pay attention to very closely.
or she forgets shit, didnt write it down, and you didnt mention it within a week of your actual bday im a total space cadet about taht shit. hell, i wrote down my fiancees bday and id still forget 2/3 the time if i didnt look at my cheat sheet. i forget birthdays all the time though, save for my own and my mothers
should i have to mention it tho, thats the thing... i mean i took the time to remember her birthday, the least she could do is remember mine... ok u could say that she could easily forget it, but i know that if i forgot her birthday, she would KILL me!!! i mean i didnt mention that she forgot my birthday, and when she did remember, i said i was ok with it, but i wasnt, i probably said that because im the kind of person who wouldnt realli show what i truly feel...i dunno...
you should mention those things now that you know she forgets them. i'm another person who forgets dates. i mean if somebody asks me when my anniversary is, when my fiance's birthday is, i can tell them but it often slips by without my really noticing.. i just totally lose track of dates, even holidays seem to come so suddenly.
but like she doesnt normally forget things, and i have a bad a bad memory, but i still remember the birthdays of the people that mean a lot to me, is it 2 much to ask that she remembers it, i mean its an easy date to remember as well, i mean, what do i do now, do i just forget it and move on or what?...oo and thanks 4 all r replies guys
