I need to grow balls and talk to girls...easy to do?

Discussion in 'Love and Sex' started by Brady_to_Moss, Sep 26, 2008.

  1. Brady_to_Moss

    Brady_to_Moss Member

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    I never walk up to girls i dont know that well and start talking to them...do i just gotta go up abd be like hey my name is ..... something like that... Girls how would feel if a guy did this to you?
     
  2. dangermoose

    dangermoose Is a daddy

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    I'm not sure I get what it is you're asking the girls it's okay you do. Introduce yourself sure, but have something else to say beyond your name. Introductions are mandatory if you wanna have a chance with any girl, its what you say beyond that or how the introduction comes up thats important.
     
  3. jamaican_youth

    jamaican_youth Senior Member

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    You have to read their body language first, if you're not getting any signals, don't approach them.
     
  4. Hoatzin

    Hoatzin Senior Member

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    Haha. Fun fact: women don't do this for guys.

    Dude just needs to practice on some ugly/mediocre/depressed chicks to boost his confidence, and not go to women who are obviously way out of his league "on the offchance".

    Also, if you like a girl, never try and separate her from her friends. Talk to the whole group, and keep doing that, even when you're pretty sure she's "in the bag" so to speak.
     
  5. jamaican_youth

    jamaican_youth Senior Member

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    Of course they do it, maybe you've just not noticed, you've never picked up on any signals? I can't approach a girl cold unless I get the feeling that they're interested. Most of the time it's the look, if they literally look you up and down, if you're sitting next to them and they cross a leg over and her foot occasionally brushed against your jeans etc, you know they're interested. I pick up on signals all the time, women definitely do them.

    Contact starts before you talk.
     
  6. Rigamarole

    Rigamarole Senior Member

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    As for growing balls, I prefer to use Miracle Grow and a hydroponic set-up.
     
  7. Vire

    Vire Member

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    You already know your problem. It's the balls. These are them: oo (life-size)

    JK JK JK

    Talk to girls like you would talk to anyone, be friendly but not desperate; confident but not cocky; but don't introduce yourself like "Hi, my name's ..", cuz that would be wierd. lol
     
  8. veroness

    veroness There's only one :)

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    dont just randomly walk up to someone and say your name. find something about them that you could start a conversation with. like a cool hair style or funky shoes. be like is it hard to walk in those or something. be funny but not stupid funny and dont try so hard. if they dig you, they will talk to you if not you should just keep walking.
     
  9. julia123

    julia123 Member

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    Just go and do it man and see the result. Why do you come to any conclusion for that you have never attempted. Good Luck!!!!
     
  10. HushBull

    HushBull Insuperior

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    Girls are humans, so are you.
    Get over it.
    Oh, and have fun.
     
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