Ok on Friday, I met this real nice girl...and I ended up goin back to a friends house and things got more physical then I wanted them to (my first time doing anything at all). Now I feel like I did something wrong and also been feelin like a total bag of ass for the past few days. I have her phone # and wanna call and apoligize..but I'm not too sure what she'll think after the other day. She said she wanted to hear from me and see me again so what should I do? This isnt the usual me, im always quiet and keep to myslelf. Anyone have any advice?
Why feel bad about it? Was it good? Do you like her? Does she like you?Did you want it? I don't get it.
Yes it was good, and yes I do like her, part of the reason I feel all shitty. No, I didnt really want to, but we just sorta went with it, now I feel like a dirtbag
what exactly did you guys do? did you guys have sex? i think you should call her because maybe then she is worrying the same, and you can make each other feel better (with more makin out and sex!)
wow, i feel like you're the last guy i met..... that's so weird. the same thing happened to me, except on the girl's end, just a month or so again. i really didn't understand, still don't.................
You shouldn't feel bad hon. Obviously this girl wanted to do those things with you, or else she wouldn't have taken it that far. Personally I'd question what kind of girl she is, meaning, is she really someone you want to have a relationship with? Someone who eagerly jumps in the sack so quickly doesn't sound like someone who is up for a "real relationship", more like just fooling around. Then again, you're still quite young yet, so I say to just go for whatever you feel. If you like her, and want to see her again, then give her a call. She might be sitting there thinking "geez, we did all of that and he didn't even call me afterwards?!" But on the other hand, she might not think much of it, this might be her usual behavior and she's used to things like this. Peace.
Is this a joke? Seriously... Could it not be that she liked him and only let it go that far because she was sure he'd be in touch with her again??? But yeah dude, seriously get in touch with her - she has asked you to, it sounds like you both had fun (guilt aside), and seeing her again is probably the best thing you could do to alleviate that guilt - you seem to be under the impression that she will think badly of you for what happened, when this is most likely not the case, and she will only think badly of you if you DON'T get in touch - because then she'll more than likely feel a bit used. One thing - don't apologise - maybe make some comment about not being able to believe how far you went, but don't apologise - she probably doesn't think you have done anything wrong!
Oh yeah, it's a joke, ha, ha. Am I one of the only people who have morals anymore? Excuse me, I'm sorry that I was a "decent girl" and have had sex with only person, and that person is my husband, and no, I have no regrets about that. Sorry that I have morals and believe that sex should be between two loving and commited people. I realize that I'm a minority, I realize that people have sex with any and everybody anymore and think nothing of it, but that's just not me.
Theres nothing wrong with having morals, but people's morals vary - not knowing the situation i think its more than a bit harsh to assume that someone who has sex on a first date isn't interested in a relationship. It wasn't the whole moral/sex/relationship thing that i was commenting on - it was the assumption that this girl was only interested in sex and not a relationship, just because she had sex on a first date. Example one - with the last girl I met and started dating we had sex on our first date, was she just up for "fooling around" ??? No, we get married next August.
Anyway I gave her a call tonight and all is great. I explained everything and she completely understood. It ended up she said that she only let things go that far was because she did in fact like me and definitely wanted to hear from me again. So all in all I'm glad I called her, and we're going to start dating. For once a happy ending. Wow. p.s thanks for the advice everyone, especially TheStoon.
I cannot fathom feeling guilty about having sex. If I had a chance to get some and I pussied out, then I'd feel like an asshole. This society is so sexually repressed. Fuck that guilt, people. Get over it.
im glad all worked out for u good luck with ur relationship buddy! and im glad u called her, it was the right thing to do love everyones friend madison :sunglasse
