I love anal and I think he would too.

My man and I have a pretty good sex life. Not real crazy but satisfying. He likes to fuck my ass but not as often as i would like. He also enjoys it when I lightly rub his asshole when I'm sucking his dick. I would like to take things a step further for both of us. Any ideas on how I can get him to get more enthusiatic about my ass and his own?

 

One word strap on

Tiffany

 

Maybe get some anal porno movies which may put him in the mood. Or you can always find another man who is more open minded.

 

Tiffany bad lol
try giving him a rim job or ues a finger up there
what u can do is go buy a anal plug ( i like the ones that vibrate) and one time just surprise as u slide it in lol make sure to use lub it hurts for us as much as it does for u ladies

 

Take it out and put in your butt? haha. I think a problem could be, at least this is what happens to me, he'll feel like you won't enjoy touching that part of him because it's theoretically dirty. Just make sure you let him know it's cool and you like it, you know? Wish my girl was that big on anal.
The other part, Uhm that's not something I would ever ask for directly, but if she put a finger or something else in me while the mood was playful, it would probably be enjoyable. So just go for it, I'd say.

 

Tell him exactly what you want before it hits the bedroom, or you could take it to the bedroom and tell him with dirty talk. Either way you will get what you want.

 

show him a rape scene from oz and say "This is what i am talking about but just the two of us and your going to be the bitch."

 

ha ya i think me calling him my bitch would majorly backfire sex-wise.

 

I asked him last night if he really enjoys it when i play with his ass. He said he is really into it but then dropped it. I dont want to be like "hey im gonna shove a dildo up your ass. I hope thats okay. "

 

Dump him and hook up with a guy crazy about anal sex. So what are you doing tomorrow night, sugar?

 

Next time you give him a hand job use baby oil start rubbing his hole then whe he's really into put your fingers in and massage. Worked on my husband

 

lol. im going to marry him so im stuck. he'll come around. maybe ill give it another shot tonight.

 

i tried exactly that and it worked! yay! We talked about getting a toy for him. Nothing too big, a nice starter toy. Any ideas?

 

butt plugs
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The biggest drawback could be that he thinks you'll think he may have a gay side that he don't want to reveal. Mens arse holes are sacred places especially if the man is straight. All men are basically gay. Admit that and your gayness evaporates like snow from a dry stone wall on a sunny spring morning.

You tell your guy he's the biggest hunk of man flesh in town and you want his man flesh up your FEMALE anus and that should calm him down.

 

Toys

 

Toys yes my husband is cool with just havent gotten any yet. My husband is comfortable with his sexuality but he still doesnt want anyone to know though he does admit he thinks his guy friends are missing from their wives. He says its the best orgasm in the world. And I love to see his expression when he cums.

 

let us know what ones u get

 

He probably wants you to play with his ass more considering he said he's really into it. He probably thinks you find it strange and thats why your asking, not actually because you want to take it further, if that makes sense?!

 

He may like you to take the initiative and begin penetration and a small anal vibrator . Also a vibrator in your Virginia can send sensations when he's giving anal sex . Too many guys associate with anal play ( for themselves ) with being gay and miss out on a better orgasm .