My boyfriend tells me I'm really good @ giving bj's (as well as the previous guy I was with), and how it makes him weak, and I should do porn or give lessons. But.. he said I was #2 on his list & the best he ever gotten was with some girl last year, and how she used whipped cream on him during his b-day, he said im getting closer to being #1 but not quite But his b-day is coming up next month & I told him on his b-day im going to give him the best bj he ever had, I know its a lot of people on here who maybe more experienced, I already know the basics, how to make his toes curls and body stiff, but i wanna take it further, i particularly want tips on the balls (never explored this area very much)
Really impossible to say coz it's really relative to what one likes. You need to ask him how to get better. What works for others may not work for him. I even find it difficult to give clear instructions. I usually give feedback of what's right now happening and encourage good moves. Have you tried the menthol (mint) candy trick? The grapes trick sounded also interesting, will try that one day too.
no i never tried the mint trick but ive heard of it, but I know he wants to me to do stuff with his balls he was encouraging me to do that the last time we were together and he never has before
Mint trick is a winner; if you go for the balls keep in mind that they're a bit more sensitive than you would imagine
lol i couldn't do that, that's one thing i wouldn't do, or i think he would like, and ive asked him about that before too
yeah ive heard they're sensitive, got any tips on what to do with the balls, like how to lick them or fondle them??
hahaha ahh, I never anticipated the day I'd give advice of this sort.. okay, from what I can assume merely by having them, try open palmed, kind of cupping them in your hand but not forcefully, just let them be there, and avoid nail scratching. depending on his hang, the balls themselves are intended to be around the thicker part of your palm, near the wrist, and you're elevating them so that the upper parts of you hands are supporting the rest of the sack. sweet. don't have much more time to type, gotta catch a train (seriously)
Personally I like it if you take my balls completely in your mouth and suck on them.. it's that enveloping warmth that feels nice. But everyone's different so... gonna have to talk to your bf about it.
I can't believe he told you that you were #2 and not #1. Tell me why you would want to satisfy him after saying that?
because i asked him, the last guy i was with said i gave him the best bj he's had, and I was curious where i ranked with him, I would expect and want him to be honest with me, thats how we are, trust me it helps with the sex life, i didnt take it as an offense at all
wow you guys are more shocked over it then me, lol, when i asked him and he told me, i felt good about it, because i know he's been with alot girls before me, some probably more experienced than me, i didn't think i would rank that far up
Been dating someone for a while. He has ALWAYS TOLD ME THAT I GIVE THE BEST BLOW-JOBS. Actually, he's told me that I give the best blow-jobs in the world. Ofcourse, I just giggle and continue doing what I do best. I know how men are, they will say whatever in the heat of the moment, so I'm just kinda like "yeah yeah, whatever." But guys, if you tell a girl that she gives the best blow job in the world, do you mean it or do you just say it to say it?
Girls, don't get overconfident. We may say things out of politeness. Few boys have the guts to tell you the truth in that moment. I mean, the risk getting bitten is just too high.
Yeah I would never tell a girl she was #2, haha, I mean that's kind of mean. It makes things awkward in a way too, like if she's giving you head instead of her being into it and thinking about it being fun, she's probably nervous and thinking, "God am I really not as good as this other girl?" I would never tell a girl that, just seems to lack class. Now it'd be one thing to give some advice, that's awkward but necessary sometimes, if done right. "Oh you're so good at that, feels amazing, you know it'd be even better if you just applied a bit more pressure, that'd be amazing." haha
what you guys scared of telling your girl the truth, is that why your so shocked????, my boyfriend isn't that type of person and neither am I, where honest when it comes to sex, and it just makes the sex between us better, and it doesn't get in the way of me giving him good head at all, I didn't even get mad when he told me that i seriously don't understand why some of you guys are so shocked, that's how I am too, we must have been made for each other, lol, I would rather be with a guy whose honest with me then lie to save face, that's not gonna help with nothing but just keeps things the same
I've 'never' in my life had a nice BJ. ( Can you imagine I've never ever been with someone who could give a proper BJ? They either use 'teeth' or take only a a very small part of the head in their mouths, and subsequently I always failed to feel anything from it! This is why sex has always came in the first place for me "but any way it should, eh?" I hope I'd next time be with someone who 'knows how' to give a decent head, since I realllly yearn to try this feeling. I notice that almost every one is talking about it as a havenly feeling, on he contrary of what I've experienced, bah!