Does the sight of surgical scars or skin grafts turn you off from sex?

I don't know about you, but seeing someone with scars from surgery of some kind is a big turn off for me. Of course that's not limited to just scars, but skin grafts from burns, or any other malformation of skin that doesn't resemble normalcy.

So what about you? Does it bother you to see something like that before or during sex?

And if it does, can you best explain why it does bother you...

 

Not at all, scars have stories

 

yeah I like scars.

 

no cause i got scars, and even if I didn't i wouldn't a little thing like that effect who i'd do and who i wouldn't

 

It may be a dumb reason to descriminate people, but I have no scars whatsoever, so seeing someone else with imperfections like a scar, a burn mark, or some kind of serious alteration to the human body is a big turn off to me.

I remember years ago when I was single, and messing around with single mothers. I recal seeing c-section scars, and I would get a sick-to-my-stomach feeling knowing how perfectly healthy my body was compared to hers. And mind you, it has nothing to do with physical appearance, such as looks or body type... It's just that I associate bodily scars to that person being imperfect. Even if they're perfect for me mentally.

As for that one single mother, she gave a really mean bj and oozed pussy juice like no one I've ever seen, so I after a while I got use to her scar - but eventually let her go since I didn't want a long term marital relationship with anyone that already had kids.

 

no my boyfriend has a big skin graph on his arm, its not nice to luk at, and den alot of scars down the same arm (car crash )... it didnt turn me off in the slightest... i even seen it b4 he got the skin graph... i was luking at raw muscle, and a bit of bone!! :O:O.. but still NOT turned off... but maybe its just coz i luv him?? i duno... but i do like little scars, like on the face.. i tink it luks sexy ... ha

 

Not at all. scars are attractive and can be a turn on. They have histories and add character to the person who has the scar. Its also a remnant of physical trauma, something the person endured and survived, and is in that sense a symbol of strength. They say what doesn't kill you makes you stronger. That by itself is the turn on. Strength is sexy.

 

i have a scar on my tummy! and my fingers have stories to share too

 

it wouldnt bother me. i have a few scars myself so it's just a part of life really.

i had a thing with a girl once who had been a pretty chronic self-harmer. by the time we got together she'd stopped cutting herself, but her arms were still criss-crossed with old scars.

it was something i intially found a bit hard to deal with, but then i came to realise something; the scars weren't a sign that she'd had a terrible life so much as they were a sign that she had survived and had the strength to come through it - maybe not unscathed, but she was still here at the end of it all. it made me appreciate more who she was as a person and that in its own way was beautiful, not ugly.

 

If I am into 'the person' nothing would stop me from loving every inch of their body, including any scars of course.

 

Each to there own but I wouldn't care if there were scars...