Is It Cheating?

When you get in on a couple who want a third guy in the mix?

I kinda always wanted to d-ped a woman with another guy, but I don't date women or ever have that would ever consider something like this.

I'd also probably not want to do it with a girl I'm seeing.

For some reason I think an intimate couple that want to experiment with another guy, is that cheating? I mean, technically it's not like you're going on a date with another woman, going to her place and fucking, it's basically a couple fucking and need a hand.

Help, please.

 

threesomes arent cheating if everyones agreeing to whats going on, i fyou ask me

 

A 3rd guy? So no chick?

And um, is this a rhetorical question?

 

No, a heterosexual couple that wants to have a threesome with another guy.

 

If both parties agree, i dont think that's considering "cheating".

 

I have to agree. If the couple agree with the situation, it is not cheating for either partner.

 

OMG, is it cheating for me?

Cause I'm getting the impression you're talking about the couple.

 

It is not cheating. Cheating is when two people are in a committed monogamous relationship and one of them is a lying bastard and chooses to have an affair behind the others back.

 

So you're still dating the prude chick? I'd ask her if she thought it was cheating or not.

 

What?

If you mean prude as in conservative, then yes, but I don't much like that term.

I think when you're just dating and want to go for a threesome with another guy and a girl I don't think it's cheationg, not the same as if I was with 2 other girls, because I'm just getting with a couple that are in a relationshp and need some help.

I'm on the edge here, I've passed on a few couples already because they want to set things up like soon like when you go on these adult sites ( I go on one ) you get these couples wanting to do it in a week or so.

I don't know I think I'm just gonna have to forget about it, my membership is running out lol.

 

Cheating implies dishonesty. Yeah, you might just be a helping hand in someone elses sex life, but unless the same rules apply for your partner it can be (and often is) considered cheating.

 

Dude come on man, this is without a doubt cheating. The whole just helping out another couple thing doesnt cut it. Thats a bull shit justification. Now im not trying to be an asshole by any means. Hell i have the same fantasy as you so i can understand tripping out about wanting to do it. It is most definitely cheating unless your gf knows and his cool with it. That being said i know oppurtunites like that dont happen all the time.

 

...It's cheating dude. Look, if you're not sure, ask yourself these questions:

1. Does your girlfriend know what you are doing? If yes, you're not cheating. If no, proceed to...
2. Imagine your girlfriend's reaction if she found out. In your mind's eye, is she a) Telling you it's all cool, or b) Punching you in the head and throwing crockery at you?

It's b, right? Do it if you want, just don't be under any illusions that you're not cheating on your oblivious girlfriend, cos you're 'providing a service'?!

 

as long as YOU are single its fine! have fun.

 

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I think you have said that you have a girlfriend and that you want to have a threesome with another couple, without your girlfriend being involved.

That's definitely cheating.

 

Is it cheating on your diet if you only have a box of snacky cakes when you are at your friend's house but not at home?

 

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I think it is cheating

 

the fact you need to ask for an answer, it means you obviously werent so comfortable with it.

The only answers you got were
- sure man ur justified cause 100's of internet users said its ok.
or
- your initial instinct said its wrong so ya better not do it.

lol...