I'm a 27yo male not interested in sex. Any advice??

I'm a 27 year old male and I'm for some reason not interested in sex. I have normal testosterone (I've been tested) and no I'm not gay, I've always been attracted to women. Blowjobs also do not interest me. I love to pleasure women and can go down on them time and time again, but for some reason I've never really seen the appeal of actual intercourse. Furthermore, the thought of performing sex gives me anxiety because I'm concerned that I won't be able to perform at the optimal level (because of the lack of desire for sex). I have a sex drive in that I masturbate daily. Is there any one who has this same problem or could offer suggestions??? It's really frustruating and embarrassing. Thanks!!!

PS: Serious answers only, please

 

Todd - consult a sex therapist and determine why you are afraid of intercourse. Is it because you are afraid of getting someone pregnant?
Is it because you fear that you will not be able to get or maintain your erection? Have you ever had intercourse?

Another option would be to visit a high class prostitute, and ask her to help you get over this problem.

PM me if you want some private advice.

 

heh, I'd say consult a professional about it. Can't relate, so can't really give advice. Perhaps you're not ready? No idea, sorry

 

Try monitoring your breath accurately. It disturbs. Or try observing the motion of your eyes blinking, it will also lose it's regulation.

Sexual drive is the same thing exactly, if you observed it closely, it just disturbs.

You have some work to do with yourself. It's all about taking sex totally out of your head for a while, catching yourself thinking, and thinking of something else. Think of it as a therapy, and trust me the odds of it working and not as few as you may think. But it's a tough challenge.

 

Testosterone aside, you may be low on other hormones. You may also have a vitamin defeciency. You'll have to ask your doctor to run more tests to know for sure.

 

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