I think my girlfriend is cheating on me....

Well, it is selfish.

But most the time the cuckold has a very big hand in getting cheated on.

It's so obvious when someone is about to cheat-

 

yeah. i guess. it's so sordid and unpleasant. i mean, if you know you're unhappy in a situation, why not just GO?

 

FEAR OF ABANDONMENT, baby!!!!

 

i figure it's just a mean streak.

 

Even meanies have their reasons.

Just look at politics. There's always a REASON.

 

my dad was a relentless cheater. what a dick.

 

My ex was the cheater in my marriage. My fault for marrying the Devil's concubine.

 

I would have been too, were I married and had children.

I think only now am I even remotely capable of commitment.

Thankfully, I was never pressured to marry anyone. And I've always been careful where my DNA went.

 

My dad was a cheater until my mom divorced him and moved away. He didn't know where we were until she finally had to break down and ask for child support - which he rarely gave.

Last time my dad showed signs she rammed his truck with her car. You don't cheat on crazies without fearing for your penis. :cheers2:

 

I'm coming up on the 13th anniversary of my divorce. I still have no desire to marry again.

 

hahaha. my poor mom. she was such a beautiful, cheerful, naive little thing. he fucked his way through her entire softball team. then he blamed her and beat her up.

however, he's now married to a wonderful piece of white trash that cheats on him every bit as badly. and he's wondering about his grandchildren. wants to talk to them and stuff. i'm not so mean as to not be suckered in by my love for my dad when he calls, but i'm not going out of my way to develop a relationship anymore. he's knocked me down too many times.

 

and prax, that's a pretty messed up thing to say. i don't think you're that hopeless.

 

you are only 19....you're likely not with the person that you will be with forever. this is a learning experience and it sounds like you need to learn to detach from her.

look at all the stress and questions you have in your mind. thats not a good relationship.

there is only one person to bring you happiness in life and that is yourself. right now you are going out of your mind in many ways. fuck that. what makes her worth it?

 

Thanks for the vote of confidence-

But I'm trying to accept what's coming to me.

It may be that I'm not going to have a family. I don't think having a family is supposed to be in a hierarchically priviledged position relative to bachelorhood, necessarily.

I may just turn out to be the loner.

 

most people I know that accept they might be destined to be a loner, give up and finally find the "one"

 

You know what? I recently found out that is saddly true.

 

so she was cheating on the devil with you? you should be proud.

 

I was cheated on once *that I know of* and I am still not over it. Especially cause it happened to be ultra shitty, she was my "friend"... and a total liar/manipulator... besides I was (am) 1000 times better than her... and my ex was just the biggest asshole for doing that to me, especially with *her*... and of course, he blamed me for it, of course... "Oh since you kept accusing me of wanting to cheat on you with her (um... wasn't I right not to trust that little shit?) I thought I might as well do something about it" - eww... shittiest excuse ever. How about... "I'm a loser who let himself be totally manipulated by the ugliest, skankiest, sickest, fakest whore ever - when I had something really precious - I really am embarassed".

Anyways, it is very embarassing for him.

But I believe in karma. To each their turn.

I kinda have been trying to forget about it lately but I really don't know if I'm ever going to be able to.

 

based on just this paragraph, it sounds like you both basically knew it was over before the cheating anyway. not that it really helps of course...

 

No, it's just that that whore ruinned our life.

But she ruins everybody's life, she's like cancer.