I need help! Im so stuck and I have no sense of direction:(

Hello,
my girlfreind is originally from outside the u.s. she has been down in america for several summer already, she usually flys back home after the summer. We have been in a relationship for a year already....she is trying to move down here year round now, and i think im the reason why, she said im a huge part of the reason why as well, we had several serious talks about how her staying down here complicates everything the most! (visa issues) and we discussed how i think it is not worth it for her to try to move down b/c idk what i want, and b/c i dont even KNOW if i want a relationship her,

the reason is b/c she is the first gf ive ever had, and the one i lost my virginity to, i have a feeling that makes me feel like if i hung out with other girls i find attractive and i had sex with them than i MIGHT, again, I MIGHHHTTT feel the same way about them, my main dilemma is; i dont know if what i feel towards my gf is LOVE, idk if i want serious relationship at this moment, i wanna continue dating and i wanna sleep with at least one more girl b4 i know how i feel about her, what do u guys think?

 

i dont want to sleep with other girls just to act as a player.... i love what i got and i love my girlfreind but her moving down here year round is a BIG step in her life, she is going to need to struggle b/c shes not american she will need to work, get a car, rent a house, and alll this is for me.... I TOLD HER I WANT HER TO GO BACK, I TOLD HER THAT I DONT KNOW IF I WANT A RELATIONSHIP, she agreed on going back home but then she changed hermind and insisted on staying....

My plan is to make it clear that i don tknwo if i want a relationship, and im going to tell her i need time to think...and then im going to go out hang out with other girls and if i end up sleeping with another girl and feeling strong connections with the other girl, than its a sign that i dont really lover, I CARE about her and i DONT want to hurt her thats why i wanna decide how i feel about this relationship and let her know ASAP.

 

helllp please!

 

umm. id say u better make up your mind if you want to be with her before she makes the huge change in her life. if u dont wanna be with her tell her and break up with her. if u do then let her move up there? as for sleeping with other girls to find love.. idk good luck?