Female dominated relationships

Discussion in 'Relationships' started by GloomyGus89, Sep 27, 2008.

  1. GloomyGus89

    GloomyGus89 Member

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    Is anyone into femdom relationships? I'm not just talking about psychotic strict control, it can also be gentle and loving. Does anyone like any of the following?


    -The girl has the final say in basic everyday decisions
    -The girl is in charge of the finances
    -The girl typically is dominant sexually, the man is usually bound, not in control or given orders
    -The girl receives more and gives less than the guy (oral, massages, etc.)
    -The girl is allowed to sleep around but the guy isn't (or must ask permission)
    -The girl controls how her man dresses, and makes him get a tattoo with her name on it or otherwise mark himself physically with a sign of devotion
    -The man does most or all housework
    -The man may be beaten, whipped or otherwise disciplined for various reasons
    -The man is verbally abused and humiliated, possibly in public
     
  2. darkforest

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    -The girl has the final say in basic everyday decisions
    No, relationships are a partnership

    -The girl is in charge of the finances
    If she wants to be and her man is ok with it.

    -The girl typically is dominant sexually, the man is usually bound, not in control or given orders
    If they both like it, ok

    -The girl receives more and gives less than the guy (oral, massages, etc.)
    I believe in pampering but I like to be pampered too.

    -The girl is allowed to sleep around but the guy isn't (or must ask permission)
    Ahh... No

    -The girl controls how her man dresses, and makes him get a tattoo with her name on it or otherwise mark himself physically with a sign of devotion
    Ahh... No
    -The man does most or all housework
    Depends, if she hasa job and he doesn't this would be fine.

    -The man may be beaten, whipped or otherwise disciplined for various reasons
    Ahh.. No again

    -The man is verbally abused and humiliated, possibly in public
    And again, No
     
  3. sarahrei

    sarahrei ~Lover~

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    Not for me.
     
  4. GloomyGus89

    GloomyGus89 Member

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  5. Smelly Socks

    Smelly Socks is probably lurking

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    I'll slap ya around for a bit for 5 bucks.
     
  6. lilnat20

    lilnat20 Member

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    nooo.... hmm nooo

    dont agree with the sleeping around for both partners..
    women would always end up doing the housework!
    never would have control in dressing my man! he wouldnt like it *sigh*
     
  7. verseau_miracle

    verseau_miracle Banned

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    No one person should be in total control, its a joint effort. I wouldnt want my husband to be in charge of everything. Thats why we each do the things were best at. Based on our abilities see, not our genitals
    Someone deciding what you wear all the time just isnt healthy
    As for your last few questions, if youre into that id be a bit concerned, personally
     
  8. Asmodean

    Asmodean Slo motion rider

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    Sounds very gentle and loving.. :rolleyes:
     
  9. babyhellfire

    babyhellfire Banned

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    I see it no different than a male dom relationship.
    Some people are into it. I could never get into either(other than occasional RP in the bedroom).
     
  10. hayduke_lives5447

    hayduke_lives5447 Sancho

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    I had an ex that had a very strong personality and wanted to control everything. That relationship had a lot of arguments and tension because I am pretty stubborn when t comes to being told what to do. I ended getting a job out of town and we are still friends. She has a new boyfriend and she has just crushed him. He has no say about anything and has to ask permission for everything. He and I are kind of friendly, but I think I probably give him to much crap about being whipped.
     
  11. mariecstasy

    mariecstasy Enchanted

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    its actually a pretty common occurence but you don't see it because they don't act like it in public.

    I looked into it a couple years ago and knew it wasn't for me. I like to argue to get my way;)
     
  12. GloomyGus89

    GloomyGus89 Member

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    It's a shame you don't see more of these :-(
     
  13. tutex

    tutex Member

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    dude if thats you GET OUT
     
  14. underthesun

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    sounds better than the other way around :)
     
  15. Nifty

    Nifty Member

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    I started getting a boner while reading the original post...

    I'm not joking.
     
  16. mapelt

    mapelt Guest

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    i am looking for ideas my friend admitted to being a submissive beat me hurt me make me scream type and must admit to being a bit turned on but not sure how to go about it . Anyone out there a female dominate who can give me some ideas more than my warped little mind can think up
     

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