my guy is new to sex, and so far hes only been able to cum from jerking off and i swallowed his cum. it was fuckin hot. when hes fucking me i can feel him about to cum but he just cant seem to get there. ive tried lots of different things to help him out. diferrent ways of touching him, moaning, etc. any ideas? any good sayings? I keep telling him i want to feel him shoot his hot load into me, to fill me up, hit my cervix, etc etc. thanks boys. i know its prob a mental thing, right?
If you said all that to him and he couldn't let it go then maybe you should have talk if you haven't already.
we did, hes trying and reallllly turned on just can't. i dated a guy who had that problem and i got him to jerk off while i made out with him and it fixed the problem!
Well I hope you get it worked out. It sounds like you're in touch with your sexuality so I'm sure you'll figure out sumthin.
Try teasing. Pull back off to just the tip of his cock, and -- just for 20-30 seconds -- work that barely inside you, then go back to hard thrusting. Tickling a man's balls right at the moment sometimes will put him over the top. Or -- better yet -- ASK him to come inside you! Pleeeeeeze.
hehe that is one of my moves. funny you said that, that usually works with most guys! oooh ive been asking him. its a huge fuckin turn on to have someone cum inside!!! oh and i dont know if hes on anti depressants, i will ask discretely lol. thanks everyone!
Is he masturbating? If so, ask him to cut back so he can save it up for you. Usually this might be a difficult request, but I'm sure you can make a pretty convincing offer. Also, if he's nearing orgasm and thrusting hard and trying to come but can't, it might have to do with physical fatigue. Sometimes when you can't come you try to make it happen with brute force by going wild and thrusting as fast as you can without taking good breaths. Sometimes it tips you over the edge, but if it doesn't it's just exhausting and you start thinking you'll never come, and it goes downhill from there. So if it looks like he's close but is getting tired, let him take a break and start doing the work yourself, be on top. Also ask him if there are any particular things he likes; ear nibbling, back scratching, etc.
MaryJane, I went off to do my afternoon tasks, thinking about your "problem," tho it really isn't much of a problem at all. After all, what fun you'll have, trying to get him confident and turned on to a point that he'll leave his gift in your Christmas stocking. Having said that, I'm thinking about the many, many encounters I've had, and the occasions when I had trouble reaching a climax. Yes, I've faked a couple of orgasms; not many times, but I admit I have. Sometimes it just happens. There are a lot of women who don't understand how a man's penis works. Some girls think that you need to milk the darn thing, when, in fact, it's the push stroke that gives the best sensation. That's just one example. More to the point, men can be over-stimulated, too. At some point, we pass a point of sensitivity, and simply can't get over the top. This is especially true when he's had too much sex, or excessive foreplay. What I'm suggesting (and I admit that this borders on personal fantasy) is something akin to a quickie. Get yourself worked up -- on your own --and be waiting for him when he's coming out of the shower or just getting home from work. No oral on him; no requirement preliminaries on his part: no foreplay necessary. Say, "Sweetie, can you just come here and fuck me? Just do it. Quick!" Grab is apparatus, pull him onto/into you, and tell him to hurry. Doggie style might give even better results, since he gets the maximum control, but the sensation of your breasts and limbs wrapped around him will add to the stimulation. There aren't many men who could hold out for long with that. Believe me, the biggest turn-on for a man is being desired. Being desired desperately is even better. This is just a thought that was fun to share. Let me know how it goes.
