Letting my boyfriend fuck some random chick

Discussion in 'Random Thoughts' started by Flannelwearin'gal, Oct 10, 2008.

  1. Flannelwearin'gal

    Flannelwearin'gal .robert.johnson.fan.

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    heres the dealio.

    my boyfriend ,Nick, expects us to have sex at some point in time but i don't wanna fuck anyone until im out of highschool


    He's supposed to be going to Farm Stock around Halloween and I think i should let him fuck someone seeing as I wont until im our of highschool and i doubt we will be together that long.

    What is your opinion on this?
    Let him fuck a chick, or make him wait??
     
  2. stalk

    stalk Banned

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    why wait?
     
  3. A-Bear's-Vagina

    A-Bear's-Vagina 2 Kings Chapter 2 23-24

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    let him do it....

    why are you waiting anyways?
     
  4. Arlandis

    Arlandis Visitor

    make him wait
     
  5. fitzy21

    fitzy21 Worst RT Mod EVAH!!!!

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    let him fuck all the chicks he wants
    thats what a good g/f will do
     
  6. bustramp

    bustramp Member

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    It's up to you! If you're not gonna be together after HS than it's probably a bad idea to have sex, so stick to your guns!! And if your bf has sex with someone else it only shows how serious he is about you!
     
  7. Flannelwearin'gal

    Flannelwearin'gal .robert.johnson.fan.

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    Because I don't wanna end up like all the kids at my school and in my grade. Basically it's kinda a selfconfidence and an achevement goal.
     
  8. zilla939

    zilla939 Thought Police Lifetime Supporter

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    hey, that's cool you don't want to be a whore, but i think that if you love someone, you should have sex with them. don't go crazy or anything but i really don't think you should have to prove anything to yourself like that. if you don't love him, i don't think you should have sex with him, but i don't think you should let him fuck someone else, either.
     
  9. hotwater

    hotwater Senior Member Lifetime Supporter

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  10. Flannelwearin'gal

    Flannelwearin'gal .robert.johnson.fan.

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    Well the love thing is the problem.
    I love him to death, like I couldn't live without him because he's always been there for me and he's like apart of me.
    Like tuesday was the one year anniverary of Austin and I was just sitting on the window sil at school and i was crying and like the moment he walked threw the doors he dropped his bookbag and basically picked me up and held me and tried to get me to stop crying.
    I don't know If I love him romantically though. I don't know how that feels.
     
  11. hotwater

    hotwater Senior Member Lifetime Supporter

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    But If you don’t let him fool around, he’ll grow to resent you :(

    Some things just can't be bottled up :eek:


    Hotwater
     
  12. Flannelwearin'gal

    Flannelwearin'gal .robert.johnson.fan.

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    thats why i want him to fool around, but then again i don't because i care
     
  13. Pressed_Rat

    Pressed_Rat Do you even lift, bruh?

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    If you don't want to have sex, that is your choice and your boyfriend should respect that.

    If not, then let him find someone else to be with, because he obviously doesn't care about you.

    Anyone that thinks two 15 yr. olds need to have sex to "love" each other isn't too smart. I am referring to some of the people that have responded to this thread so far. Get real!
     
  14. zilla939

    zilla939 Thought Police Lifetime Supporter

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    i don't know if you are referring to me, but what i said was that people should have sex WHEN they love each other. not that they need to have sex IN ORDER TO love each other.
     
  15. Carlfloydfan

    Carlfloydfan Travel lover

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    dump the guy and date someone who respects you, he does not, at least from what I have seen so far...
     
  16. Kinky Ramona

    Kinky Ramona Back by popular demand!

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    It's all in how YOU feel, Ryann, it doesn't matter what any of us think. If you're cool with open relationships like that and he's not going to lead some other girl on, then go for it. But if he's a virgin, I wouldn't exactly encourage it, as I've observed with a lot of high school guys in my time, they tend to "fall in love" with the girl they lose their virginity to and it's kind of creepy, lol. I imagine drama like that wouldn't fare too well in your relationship.
     
  17. MaryJBlaze

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    if you're not ready for sex and you have trust and respect in the relationship then he'll wait for you and not go fuck someone else.....I don't think you know what you're getting yourself into, encouraging him to do that, but then again I don't know shit about relationships so....as cliche as it is, follow your heart.
     
  18. YankNBurn

    YankNBurn Owner

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    I guess if it dont bother you then why should it bother us?? Unless he is trying to hit on guys and comes my way :eek:
     
  19. Kinky Ramona

    Kinky Ramona Back by popular demand!

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    lol, Yank, you got teenage guys hopping planes all across America in hopes of meeting you. You're like the involuntary Michael Jackson. ;)
     
  20. Pressed_Rat

    Pressed_Rat Do you even lift, bruh?

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    I wasn't referring to any one person, but if she doesn't want to have sex that is her choice and there is nothing wrong with that. A sexual relationship can weigh heavily on a 15 yr. old's emotions, and most people that age are not developed psychologically for sexual relationships. To feed into this notion that if she doesn't want to have sex there is something wrong with her, only feeds into the pressure society puts on young people to conform to what "everyone else" is doing (which is basically be a slut and do whatever feels good, regardless of the consequences, emotionally and otherwise).
     

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