How do you improve communication in the bedroom?

Considering about 90% of these threads have to do with the fact one partner has trouble talking to another partner I want to know what your suggestions are to improve communication.


Even I have troubles in this department, and I don't think admitting so is a bad thing.

 

This is one place that we DO NOT have a problem.

The most important thing to understand and realize is that anything left unsaid or undone tends to loop itself in the mind, causing a much larger problem then would occur if communication were had.

Sometimes you will hurt one another's feelings or bruise the other's ego but having honest communication is the heart of a good relationship.

Just realize you are both people. Very unique. Each will see/experience everything through their own perception.

Be impeccible with your word.
And
Don't take things personally.

 

THANK YOU! i just learned this yesterday well i came up with a concept from my writings i realized expressing your self and saying whats on your mind makes you so much more happier the feeling of not having insecurities which are caused by unsaid thoughts is amazing. this is amazing advise listen and use it well. your very wise

 

Considering there has been 23 views and only 2 replies I'm going to say that this is probably a bigger issue then orginally thought. Any more input.

 

ehh your over thinking things.. i just say whats on my mind and go from there

 

I used to have problems with communication, until things started with my last partner. For whatever reason, from the very beginning we never had trouble talking / knowing what the other meant, no matter how much or little was said. There was nothing that was really off limits to talk about either. Honestly, as weird as this may sound, there were times when we didn't have to speak at all to communicate. I'm not sure if it was due to some kind of change in myself, or if it was just a compatibility thing that I had not achieved in the past. Now that I know it's possible, this is definitely something I'm going to be looking for in future partners. :]

But, based on problems I used to have with other partners, the main thing is just to realize that your partner cares (or should care!) what you have to say. That always made it easier for me to put my thoughts out there during times when it wasn't so easy. It can seem strange at first, but once an open line of communication is established, it gets easier and easier to make your thoughts known.

 

Long passionate touches while looking at each other and mentioning how great it feels when he's inside. This can help I think.

 

with long term partners, i never have any problem. when its less personal is when there are communication issues, i think.

 

Holding hands, giving hugs, and kissing your face a million times for no reason at all does a lot for a relationship. It's kind of like how plastering a smile on your face magically makes you happy.

 

i have little to no communication skills pretty much at all, and if i do communicate with someone i change my mind about what i said like three days later so what's the damn point?

i communicate my wants/needs about what i want in the bedroom and what feels good and all that shit, but relationship wise, i'm terrible at communication.

 

So much of communication transcends language that conversation telepathy... seeing behind screens; hearing what is told, not what is said... is invaluable. Friendships flower from such tiny prompts; the twitch of a mouth, a shared glance... all the unsaid, perhaps unsayable things.