For the past year or so I've been having fantasies of sucking cock and getting fucked by guys. I still have fantasies about women but the guy thing is new and I can't get it out of my head sometimes and I don't want it. I know I couldn't ever be romatically involved with a guy but I kinda want to have sex with them. I still want women more so than guys and I could only love a woman, but I wouldn't mind doing things with guys. I've been with girls all my life so... I'm only 16 and I'm unsure if this is part of getting older/hormones ect... I just want to know am I bisexual or bi-curious? I just think it's hot to think of sex with a guy. I don't know if I'd like it but who knows.
I think you may be discovering that you are bi but you are still young. - Expermant and see how it goes you may discover that you can have a relshionship with both guys or girls or that you are achulie straght.
experiment your ass off dude no matter if your bi or not just fuckin do it. it really does feel good and when your young u can get away with so much and sex is just like all around you so join in and get yours
i like thinkin of getting fucked to or suckin a nice juicy cock but i consider myself bi. im like you. im not sure id like it but i sure do get hot thinking about it
You are very typical, and this question has been done to death. No one will ever have an answer for you, you have to live and learn.
Since you seemingly think about it a lot, you are certainly bi-curious. Does that mean you're bisexual? Not necessarily. At some point you may decide to give it a try. If and when you do, you may find it's not for you. Have you been in an ongoing sexual relationship with a girl yet? I tend to believe that almost everyone has had same-sex urges at one time or another. But that doesn't mean that most people are bi, IMO. Your same-sex thoughts might all but disappear when you're old enough to be in a healthy, satisfying, long term relationship with a woman. In short, only you can really know and it may yet take awhile to sort it all out. You've got plenty of time and no matter what, love yourself for whoever you are.
Hello there, I am also a 16 year old who considers himself bisexual. To be honest, I had the exact same feelings as you did. Throughout my whole life, I was dating girls until about 13/14 I slowly, but surely, began to enjoy the thought of men more and more. At first I thought it was raging hormones like you said but my feelings only developed. Now, I know this may sound scary (Trust me, I was unbelievably worried and throughout the age of 15 I suffered serious depression) but don't let it get to you. Be happy with who you are. If you like both taco and sausage then hey, it's fine! You are who you are. Coming out however, that's incredibly tricky and I remember skating on thin ice for a while. I came out in February, to a guy I really liked at the time in a desperate bid for him to also come out too (He gives off a kinda gay vibe =D) He totally understood and kept my secret. It was only after that did I build up the confidence to actually tell everybody about it! One thing though, if you do consider yourself bisexual then by all means, tell people, let them know. If you are still, truly unsure, do not tell them! You could well pull out of this phase. But if not, don't worry and just enjoy your feelings! Best of both worlds huh? Plus, it opens up to a whole load more conversational topics too and you find your own confidence build tremendously! Go with the flow and only come out if you truly feel adamant about your sexuality! It's what I did, and I have absolutely no regrets whatsoever. Good luck and hope you find you're answer soon!
I am much older than you but started out much as you are now in my teens. I had one experience when I was 19 with a younger guy but it was not a completed act ( I never had an orgasm - he was very submissive - I was Dom and he fondled me but wouldn't suck ) so I never got to know. I tried for years to hide from myself but I liked porn and especially Penthouse Letters magazine. I used to try to skip over the stories where guys got sexual ( group, bi and gay letters in the mag ) but somehow, the urgew - the need - to read this sort of stuff grew stronger until I finally gave in and began to actually seek out good bi and first timer gay stories. AFter I got married, I told my wife about these desires and she accepted them - albeit somewhat reluctantly I sensed. We tried swinging and it was during those times that I finally accepted the fact that I am indeed very bisexual as there was a lot of same sex interraction. I am seldom if ever sexually attracted to a man but I really enjoy the touch, tatse and feel of another guy. If you can get a girl friend who will consent to a mmf threeway, then chances are good that you'll have the chance to touch and taste and decide for yourself. In the heat f the moment, inhibitions can fade away totally if the chemistry is right and most guys don't really care who is fondling them or who's lips are wrapped around their cock or sucking on their balls. With some female encoragement, many guys will reciprocate.. sounds yummy, eh? As for myself, I have changed over the years to where my sexual fantasies are almost all guy/guy with some mmf thrown in - but I think that if I was to let go, my bisexuality would become predomiantly gay with some pussy thrown in here and there. Ideally for me at this stage of my life - I'd find a submissive, straight looking/acting guy a bit younger than myself and keep him as my pet. But reality dictates that this will not happen. I still like and admire women but with guys, there usually aren't the head games. At least that is what I think.
