hi all this is my first post and im going to try to put it in as much detail as possiable well here i go there is a girl at my school and i find her very attractive and i think she feels the same about me because she keeps on saying hey and sitting next to me all the time and the other day she said have you got a girlfriend. but the problem is im shy and i dunno how to keep a convisation with her and i dunno what to say can someone please give me some help what to do. help will be apprieciated
I know this is not gonna be quite what you wanted to here. BE YOURSELF, everything else will fall into place as it should, for better or worse.
Talk about things that interest you or her. Ask her about herself. Then respond to that adding things about yourself. Bingo. Bango. Done. Don't worry or be timid, a girl wants someone who is secure.
i'm also shy person and never had girlfriend but i think if you become her boyfriend u won't be so shy anymore
Aw, c'mon dude - it's easy, especially if you act shy so the rest of the peeps know it. When she says "hi." sorta stop her and say,"could I talk to you some time?" By now you'll be red faced and a hemmin' and hawin'. Now that's the way to get her attention. You got it now - if she likes you. If not, she'll give you the old brush off and make you feel the fool. But being shy, that's nothing new! If she digs you, dude, she may say, "sure! After school?" or something like that. When you get to have that talk, try to look at her as you say,"gosh, I'm so shy. I've never talked with a girl much and I guess I don't know what to say." Admit it to her, man. Be honest! If she has feelings, she'll want to help you. Before you know it she'll be leading you in a conversation. Its fun,... you'll see. But you gotta be honest, gotta expose your feelings, be ready for rejection, and also ready to keep on being honest. Some of us act that way not realizing what we're doing. Most women I know would probly prefer a humble guy stammering to a prideful guy, full of hisself. Good luck, now DO IT!
1. watch "Hitch" -nice movie, really. maybe will be good for you. 2. if you want something, you have to go and get it. you can still be shy, but if you want her, show it to her, in your special gentle manner. maybe she likes about you most of all that you're so much not like other guys. 3. be prepared that maybe she doesn't like you at all-that can happen, or that she'll realize it after talking to you. Nothing is sure, and no one can be sure here 4. try to get know from different sources what she is in general and prepare to support a conversation (ie, she loves classical music-learn about at least few facts about at least few composers. and you'll be able to TALK.) No need to try to look like you know everything.. you can be just like: oh, i know this and that.. but not anything else.. could you pls help me with lack of my knowledge? Good luck
hey, a very good advise, i loved it, but i will tell you one thing.. neither woman, nor a man wants to know "naked truth" about their possible partner from the very beginning. And as nice as to see that someone is really trying to be honest, it is nice to see that one tries to really do something for you. I mean, let it even be little thing like "trying" not to be shy.. let it fail, but let a girl see that you tried. It would be very cute. But cute different from "oh, he's so cute.. what's for dinner?"
not at all. she might also don't know what to say or to be shy to talk to him, even if she's not with other guys. if she didn't like him at all, she wouldn't care to talk to him at all... he has a chance
