you see the thing is about british people is that if they pass remark about something and then get asked questions then they reply to that, its called NOT BEING RUDE something that perhaps you need to learn about. i made a comment , someone asked about it i answered it further simple as that silly girl grow up!!!
Funny thing is, I"M BRITISH! If you remembered the countless thread is I"VE TOLD YOU THAT. I'm done with you, I'm not the one that needs to grow up here. It's clear to me you have alot more problems then your inablity to orgasm. You've hyjacked two threads in the past two days, thats aganist the rules. End of discussion.
To the O.P. Perhaps you should turn up the radio, she's probably just afraid she's going to loose muscular controll and fart or something. Or mabey ask her what she's heard about female ejaculation, perhaps she let it fly once and it freaked her out??
I am naive and do not know a lot about sex but is she a new gf??? b/c the only time sexual things embarass me is when I'm with someone that I havn't done a lot of things with sexually. I need to be psychologically set up before anything sexual... if I don't feel free to be myself around the guy or he has some major personality flaw than I won't want to do anything sexual and will half ass everything and be self conscious... if it's a great guy (I've only found this in my current b/f) who I am ok to be myself around and I don't feel embarased in front of him... I don't feel dirty at all... but I'll reiterate I'm naive and know very little
See, here's the deal, kids: Failing to have an orgasm is absolutely not a failure. Like all great treasure hunts, the joy is in the search, not the weath itself. If you focus on giving each other as much pleasure as possible -- trying different things, talking about intimacy outside of the bedroom, reading about sex together -- things will work out for the best. I've often thought that "cum" is the perfect word for an orgasm, because you can't go get it; it has to come to you!
Darkangel, I'll say this as nicely and tenderly as I can. Sarahrei is absolutely right. You do come on to other threads and spread a doom and gloom and somehow spin the conversation into your own dark world. (You and I have exchanged messages about this before, as you'll recall.) I am, truly, sorry that your marriage has no fire and that you're so angry with your husband for his failure to satisfy you. But -- the truth be told -- you probably suck the positive energy out of him much the way you do it here. Sorry if this seems brutal, but I'm responding to what I read.