shit mate, wish i could say something a bit more helpful. I've had a lot of shit in my life too and like you by the sound of it, it all seems to come at once. just remember to hang in there, i know it seems like there are easy options sometimes. my brother suffers with schizophrenia, its hard to deal with something like that coz its so hard to understand but no matter how tough things get he's still your bro and deep down hes the same person hes always been u gotta remember that. keep your chin up best you can. things will get better it just might take some time, but you seem a level headed guy, take a break from it all if you can, talk to someone about and stay strong. you just gotta roll with the punches i guess. if u eva do wana chat even if its just to vent at someone just drop me a pm. take it easy dude.
hey man thats fucked up, just keep strong. this poem really helped me when shit was hard No reason to FUCK UP Face it, Nobody owes u a living.What u achieve, or fail to achieve n your lifetime Is directly related to what u do, or fail to do. No one chooses his or her parents or childhood, but u can choose your own direction. Everyone has problems and obstacles to overcome, but that too is relative to each individual. Nothing is carved in stone, you can change anything n your life, if u want to badly enough. Excuses are for losers: Those who take responsibility for their actions are the real winners in life. Winners meet life's challenges head on, knowing there are no guarantees, and give it all they've got,and never think it's too late or too early to begin. Time plays no favorites, and will pass whether u act or not. Take control of your life.Make your dreams come true and take risks. If u aren't willing to work for your goals, don't expect others to. Believe in yourself, THAT IS WHAT'S MOST IMPORTANT
hang in there, man...times are getting crazy. do what you can to help your family, but I would find some way to get out of there asap.
Well, it looks to me like it's time to either fish or cut bait. I suggest you try and step up and take care of yourself. It looks to me like you might have to do this. I don't know what options you have but it looks to me like you have to either move in with your mom or become your own person. I don't know if you can count on your dad to help but if he is not willing to buy stuff for the house then maybe you say, give me some cash and i'll go shopping. It looks like your best option is to move in with mom. I am a big family guy. I think you should stand by your family no matter what. I hate to hear about a family that does not get along. I wish you good vibes and good luck. I hope things turn out ok.
just keep on trying for other jobs man, you will find a place that will hire you. only thing i can say here is that you might have to try and live on your own as soon as it is possible to do so. when i hear stories like yours i feel like an asshole when i think my life is really bad or something.
