need to know if i am gay do u think getting fucked by a guy will help me realise that, cause so fucked up in my head at the mo
Isn't this the selfsame subject as the last of, um, all your posts? Can't we please continue to discuss this vital issue within the scope of the thread located about four threads below this very one?
UK, you have been asking the same thing here for multiple posts. The answer can not be found here...only you have the answer...only you can resolve this. Any or all of us can give our opinions and ideas but only you can figure it out. In the past I have suggested to you to find a competent counselor/therapist in your area and do face to face counseling. That advice still stands. You're only gonna make yourself more confused by looking outside of yourself for answers. Get local help and good luck.
Give the guy a brake - yes there is a lot of the same posts but pople need to speek there thourghts however random - accept it. Any way - Uk Poker - calm down just chill i dont thinck that getting fucked on a one night stand will help you to relise it. It may do the oppersit I think you need to first talk to people and see what they say about it then see how it goes - just take it easy mate. Also you know you can talk to me if you need to. Tim G
Try liking a man. Try falling in love with one. If it happens, you're gay. I'm not fond of "sex solves everything" attitude. Homosexuals have romance also, you know.
but u make sound that try liking them, trying loving them as, trying having sex with them, i mean dont get me wrong i am very confused at the moment, but its almost as if some gay man trys to find and force some people to do it to add to the gay community, or to try and turn them,
You're.... twisting my words. I'm not forcing you, you're the one asking for help. If you don't want to hear what I've got to say, then alright I won't reply to you anymore. Why do you keep involving sex! It's not all about sex.
LOL, I have to laugh, er..... We don't recruit str8s and try to make them Gay you know, we're not like the Army. We don't even force str8 guys to watch Julian Clary, Dame Edna, or gay porn in the hope of making them fashionable. You are born Gay, it's genetic. No one can force you to be something you are not, it's just not possible So does that mean that some str8 woman forced you to have sex to become part of the str8 community? No one is forcing you to do anything, and i don't see the link to your confusion. you are the one who has said you have started lusting for gay sex, well do it, or don't do it, choice is yours, at least you will know one way or the other.
the confusion is mate how i use to have sex with women, but now seriously dont have any interest anymore, for me its all about cock now
- I thinck the thing is to get out there and to find a guy, - i know it can be diffcult but just belive in your self and go for it. I mean iver for a 1 night stand or achulie find somone and see how it works out. E.g. have a relshionship with them. - I think what you need is to be loved and to get it you have to find it - i will help you but you have to belive in your self. Take it easey mate - you will get there.
Like wise my friend, I was evn married for 14 years, now I moved on. Thats life. Look I can't say what you are feeling is right or wrong. It may not be what you want, but at the end of the day you got to go with what you feel. If woman no longer interest you in any way, that does'nt mean anything. People change their wants and desires over lifetime. If you don't want something , don't have something, or if you have a desire for something , explore it. Learning lessons is what life is all about. Pete
You shouldn't have sex with ANYONE until you feel comfortable with that person. Don't try to force a certain feeling upon yourself; it will only hurt you.
