im such an asshole tonight hahaha!

here is how you know you're in love...

when you let your heart get broken by the SAME woman four FUCKING times!

and almost marry her once...

dont be dumb...stay smart kids...HAHA!:cheers2:

 

Sounds like you need to move far away from this woman. Make a fresh start.

 

jerry, you seem bitter.

if that happened to me, i would only know that i am a fool....

 

done times 10...

 

Why do you keep letting her back into your life then?

 

jerry, my friend, im going through the exact same thing.
i've been with this girl off & on for almost a decade.
seems a little silly when i think of it sometimes.
but, i'll just always love her.
we're having dinner this weekend. my birthday was today and she's out of town.

sorry about that tangent.
just, always keep her in your life as a friend.
i find it's better than having her out of it.

 

i dont know red...
shes always been very special to me...listen to the beatles "something" and you'll know...

 

I do understand about her being special but you've gotta love yourself too. If this girl is repeating the same pattern every time you let her back into your life, you've gotta draw the line somewhere.

 

i have...its just real hard...

 

I hear ya man.

 

I needed to rid my life of two girls over the years who kept stalking me.

My method is to offend them beyond reconciliation. I've called them things one would not imagine.

What's gotta be done, gotta be done.

 

yeah
its just gonna take while to get over it completely...

 

i wish i could be that mean to her...

 

It will likely take another girl, Jerry. And that probably means, another way of living life.

That's my experience.

Good luck, my man. Always keep us posted how things are going.

 

hey,
you're my ****** from france...why wouldnt i tell ya?

 

No doubt.

 

Cheers man.

 

Jerry your the one who has to make a descion on whats worth it and whats not, not this woman and not us here on the fourms, just you.

 

Jer, you will find it. Obviously she isn't the one for you. It happens when you aren't looking and then you are blind sided. I know it sounds clique but it is true.

You are a good man who will find a woman who can love you completely.

And "Something" is an amazing song and it is possibly the first dance song at my wedding!

 

the woman he wrote that for left him for eric clapton, didn't she?

this is where a judicious application of temporary loathing and seething hatred can be valuable. it'll keep your energy up. remember, assholeness can be a valuable tool.