The boy I love doesn't love me!

Hey

There is a boy I love, and he doesn't love me. He had sex under the stars and It was amazing... but I found out he doesn't love me I am so upset

 

I'm sorry :/

 

your 14? you had sex with him? was he your first?

 

He was my first, I had sex

 

sorry to hear that you ok?

 

gurls get attached to tha furst. thats why im a guy

 

good idea.
wish I'd thought of that one ahead of time.

 

I came in here to make some kind of smartass comment. But this is already epic.

 

You don't love him. Trust me, You think you do but you don't.

 

ahahahahahha me too


to the Op, im sorry to hear that, it sucks but you'll get over it....I barely remember my first anymore and I Loved him at the time too, looking back I didnt even know what love was then.....

 

Don't get hung up on men.

It'll ruin you.

 

So can getting hung up on women.

 

But I have been with him for a year!

 

Agreed. hhaha.

I'm just very cynical about love on all accounts lately...


...Because I'm still hung up on an ex/kind of ruined?

 

Yea...you need to know the truth now, most of the guys you'll be with in your teens and early 20s are going to do it to you. Its a really shitty thing to do, but a lot of us do it. If you're going to get attached to every guy you sleep with, you might need to keep off that part of a relationship.

The goal for most guys your age is just to get in your pants, so if you don't do it with them but stay in the relationship for awhile, eventually they're going to call the quits because you're not giving them what they want. So after they do, you can talk all the shit you want to about them.

 

You've been with him. He hasn't been with you. :/

 

I've experienced the whole first true love and I'm 14, and I know it was true love because I never pressured her for sex, or vice versa. She broke my heart by cheating, so to speak, and now she's a lesbian. I still love her, but fuck her. Truthfully, your first love is the one you have to be most cautious about.

 

He just wanted sex, forget about him.

 

Willow oak

Sorry to hear your pain, but it is his lose. Plenty more fish so they say, i am 40+ and still get it wrong, but each time it makes you stronger.
Keep your chin up head high, and smile whenever he is around, dont let him think you miss him. Eliza

 

Sorry for your bad experience
Strange that a 14 years old girl is having a sex, believe me I am a boy but I did not know the sex until23 years old.

Sorry again and I wish for you a happy life