Hello everybody. First of all I'm sorry about posting this thread, but I had to tell someone... So.. in June I graduated from high school where I had had three very good friends and two good ones. It's October and only one's stayed. But that's not big deal.. you somehow can't make all relationships work when everyone studies somewhere else... but.. One of those very good friends (Lucy) whom I probably lost has a boyfriend for like... two yrs. And he was always funny, I liked him a lot but they both are a bit strange... for example they're breaking up every week and shouting at each other because of shit and sometimes they both are even a bit violent to each other. But today my boyfriend told me (cause his friend is a boyfriend of the best friend of Lucy) told me they're pretty fucked up cause he's crazy and for example he kicks her off the car at night when it's already cold and then gets back and she pleases him to stay with her.. but day by day she gets drunk and fuck the first guy she meets... so let's say this relationship is kinda pathologic and is supposed to end, imo. This could have never worked and now I think it's more and more obvious... But the real problem is that Lucy does not know that I know what situation she's in and so I don't know if I should call her and try to help her somehow... or let her do what she thinks is the best.. I have no idea what I should do at the moment. Should I try to help them if I haven't seen them both since June or let them be... But it hurts me... the imagination of them both suffering in a non-working relationship... I don't know.
oh how considerate of you to want to help your friends but seriously what can you do Lucy is a fuck me drunk and the boyfriend is a crazy match made in heaven imo
I don't know what I could do... I just thought just "to do something like talk to her" could help.. but probably not. Who fucking cares. she has never taken care of me, why would I have taken care of her.
