BEST NIGHT OF MY LIFE+ Worst NIGHT of my life (not drug related) all at once!

So, a few nights ago i went to a club, i was really drunk. I never really dance, im the "observing" type....i guess i was just self conscious, but for the first time when i went out last time i danced a lot! we went out in a big group of girls and a few guys, all girls were single... one of my friends the we went out with used to go out with this one girl... so we were all dancing, (mixin up the dancin couples constantly, to hip hop/ dance music) I had a great time, with no expectations of anything else happenening....
I started dancing with my freinds Ex, and she was really into it...so was I. we were all really drunk, and eventually she kissed me... and im dead serious when i say SHE kissed me... but i was soo drunk that it felt so nice that i went a long with it and we started kissin while dancing for a little while and my freind was watchin me kiss his EX, i was sucha jerk, but i couldnt control it really... RIGHT AWAY i was like wtf arent u with yossi??? n she said absoulutly not! then she said she likes me....

but the thing is I NEVER EVEN thought about her, or never even tried to get with her, i was actually interested in this other girl we went out with, so when i made out with my freinds ex, EVERYONE was staring including the girl i liked b/c i think she liked me too but she had a dude with her... anyways everyone knew wat was happenin:/ welll long story short..the actuall night was REALLY fun, and a day later i actually made sense of what happened and relised how mad my freind really is... i apologized and explained... and he said he didnt care, and hes not mad at me, but hes mad at her..... n then he said there not together, but everyone that was there said he looked really mad! so idk what to do...

TONIGHT there is a party and there all going to b there... idk if i should call him so we could meet up b4 or should i just meet him there, and idk what i should do with his ex? should i go out with her? should i ignore? i just dont know...


HELP HELP HELP!!!!!

 

soo did u get ur mind fucked the next night, too??!

 

That is all just so...

SUCK CITY.

If he kicked her to the curb, why would you worry about what he thinks? He doesn't care. Whether he likes it or not, actions speak louder than words ever could...

But you like another chick? Or should i say, liked?

Sounds like a good sitch, to me ~ you've got a choice!

 

i fail to see where the 'worst night' bit comes into play.

mate, there is absolutely nothing wrong with sleepin with your friends exs.. i mean, is he jealous or something? my girl paired up with one of my best mates after we broke up.. and that made me MAD with jealousy
but i was happy for them. they are both my friends. why be mad? thats so selfish. I personally am attracted to ex's of my friends.. its sorta like.. you know that they arent a bad person.

ps. you know the whole 'AND I wasnt even trying! I was interested in this other chick!'
thats how to get chicks to dig you more. they have to think you are interested in other women. well they dont have to.. but you will always have better chances with a woman if she thinks you like someone else more and thus she feels like she is chasing you. in a world where men are chasing women, they actually want to chase too.. but they cant chase if they feel chased.

 

Well if you genuinely have feelings for your friend's ex and he is ok with it, why not go for it? Keep in mind though, as much as I hate to say it, some girls do tell you they like you simply for the sake of leading you on. I don't know this girl or anything, so just use your judgement wisely.

But if you're getting vibes from the girl you liked before... I mean you have no obligation to anyone at this point so I say go with what you feel.

and good luck!