Hmm...need help...

I'm not going to cheat, that's the dumbest advice one could give another. I have never been a cheater and I plan to remain that way. Thanks but no thanks.

 

You are far too moral. When I was 14 I was the hand job king of my school.

 

That's nice, but I'm not about to be a cheater.

 

That is good you have those morals..makes you a very respectful person, you don't want to be a liar which will become a habit. Liars are the scum of the earth.

 

so you havent met this girl at all? and you broke up with your previous gf, that you would actually see, right? am i getting confused here? and then now your texting and calling the new internet gf, that you have never met in real life, but your worried that she may be cheating on you? is that right?

 

your not confused, he just explained it wrong

 

ok, because when i read the first post, i was pretty damn confused!

 

I didn't explain anything wrong. I never said anything at all about breaking up with a previous girlfriend that I saw often.

 

ok...I understand..yes, you are being paranoid and a little obsessive..definitely meet her in person ..you are 14..what is up with all these relationships?

 

I'm not obsessive at all. I've been paranoid plenty of times but obsessive? Never.

 

i'm still lost. so you had a girlfriend that you never met, but you dumped her for a different girl you've never met. then something undisclosed happened to the new girl, and you slept with the first girl, even though you still hadn't met her. so now she's your girlfriend again; and you still have yet to meet her. and now you think she's cheating on you because she isn't available for you to chat on the phone with 24 hours a day. right?

 

How dumb are you? I never claimed to sleep with anyone, and I never said because she's not available for 24 hours to chat you dumb fuck.

 

You can be a dick all you want, but people are willing to help and your orginal post makes as much sense as a screen door on a submarine.

 

To answer your question. If she is also 14, perhaps her parents are very strict and it makes it difficult to talk at any moment? Things aren't always as they seem, I would just ask outright but not in an accusatory manner if everything is on the level? I don't think you are paranoid, just a young guy who is keen on her but suspicious of the odd way she goes about things. Hope it works out for you. My best friend met her husband online, they are happily married with a baby girl. Online dating isn't necessarily a bad thing, if you go about it in a smart way.

 

Maybe she thinks you're a pervert.
Or maybe shes being cautious.

 

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you explicitly said "i hooked up with a girl." it is common knowledge what that means. and nobody was able to comprehend the gibbering nonsense of your first post, meaning i'm clearly not the dumb fuck here, but the only evidence offered for her "cheating" was that she is only available sometimes.

but it doesn't matter. she doesn't want to meet you and is avoiding you because she apparently did talk to you once and realized that you are an insecure retard with no ability to communicate with other people. i can just imagine the conversation:

you: hey stranger.
her: can you message me later? i'm in the middle of doing my homework.
you: what the fuck is wrong with you you stupid dumb fucking ****!? why are you such a fucking whore!? fuck you you fucking piece of shit!!!

 

Hey, settle down!

 

lol

 

Meh, I call, she says she'll call back, and doesn't. She's supposed to come over my house this weekend. If she makes an excuse not to come or acts weird I'll break it off.